i have these two lads that go to the bish and im really like them there really sound and there really nice to me. but one of the lads keep making eye contact and i think i have a crush on one of them but i wont go with im because it dosnt feel right and he is younger than me wat do i do. i like him please help;
2007-01-18 23:46:33 · 10 answers · asked by teri c 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How old are you and how old is he? If it's not illegal, what's the problem? Go for it, unless it makes you feel TOO uncomfortable.
If it is illegal.... well, the law's probably there for a reason so I would drop the matter.
2007-01-18 23:50:01 · answer #1 · answered by ya_tusik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to ask yourself why you won't go out with him. Is it because he acts too immaturely? Or just that social customs say you shouldn't? I was raised to believe the man should always be older than the woman in dating; but I look about 10-12 years younger than I am and 99.9% of the guys who ask me out are younger. So I tried it, and it's been fun. If the age difference is not that extreme though you have less problems with finding things in common to do (I don't party every night... anymore).
2007-01-18 23:52:27 · answer #2 · answered by have a nice day 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are they like, 20 years younger than you ??.. i dont really see anything wrong with having a crush or eventually dating a younger dude ..its not really about his chronological age that you have to watch for but his mental age. sometimes a guy can be 10 years older than you but acts like a toddler.
2007-01-18 23:55:48 · answer #3 · answered by kittypurr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just become a lesbian, you shouldn't like younger dudes. But you can like younger chicks. Good luck and have fun
2007-01-18 23:50:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i asked myself the same question (except the man was twice my age) and decided that life's too short. so i gave it a shot and we're still happily together a year on.
2007-01-18 23:49:32 · answer #5 · answered by janicebks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so what i have been out with girls younger than me there is nothing wrong with it
2007-01-18 23:57:35 · answer #6 · answered by estarinuta 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try asking him about it and see if he feels the same
2007-01-18 23:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by Peter J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love has no age. dummy go for it
2007-01-18 23:50:23 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too young for you.
2007-01-18 23:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by swimmyfishy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how young?
2007-01-18 23:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Emily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋