My sort of Girl
Apart from what i am goin to tell you, she is just marvelous but she makes me angry when she gets cross over little things. Hope you dont laugh!
for example
1. She has been watching tv all the time and when i asked her to give me a chance to put my DVD in, she gets cross, throws the remote control at me and switches off the sets.
2. She went into the shower and came back quickly having finished showering. I noticed that she has not used a face cloth or something and she has been doing this for sometime. So i said to her, hey lady you havent showered can we go to shower. She gets cross for the whole night and day.
This is the kind of life i am living which to me i find it irritating. Do girls do this? Then its aweful.
Now tell me, does it mean i am not fair and dont know how to handle her? Be frank with me because i need a solution to this because its important to me.
2007-01-18 23:34:31 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This sounds as through the relationship has taken it's course and maybe there nothing left for the 2 of you. you're just together time to move on.
2007-01-18 23:39:33 · answer #1 · answered by silkieladyinthecity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all women are like this, however, if a woman has more on her mind that's bothering her, she may be.
The fact that she gets so cross so quickly indicates that she may have an underlying issue with you, not so much what you're saying.
The other theory is that it is the way you are saying things. You only listed two examples but what did you exactly say? Hopefully you used more tact than to say something like, "You've been sitting around all day watching t.v. my turn, move." or "I see your face cloth is dry so I know you're not washing yourself properly and you smell." If you are saying things like this then yes, she will become cross quickly. Be sensitive in the way you say things to her. It can help tremendously.
Final theory, maybe you just aren't right for each other. In which case, you should consider ending the relationship to find happiness with someone else more in tune to who and how you are.
Best of Luck with your situation.
2007-01-19 07:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by NYGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going on what you have told us you may have a reason to be concerned. (However there are always to sides to every story and the truth in really in the middle somewhere). I do think however, that you approach may need to have a bit more tact. Do not give insruction but state what you have observed and how it makes you feel. Then come up with acceptable ways of handling the situation.
"When you react like....when I ask to watch a DVD I feel.....! What can we do so that we can accomodate each other in respect to TV viewing"
Try that... I am not an expert but it seems to work.
2007-01-19 07:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by insane2mad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I am a girl and I understand your problem, because I have it too with my fiance:) I was TV addicted, and sit a lot in front of my computer, now I can't even watch TV,because of him.He watches NEWS imagine that.But now, I started to compromise with him.When he watches TV, I watch a movie on my PC.When he plays games on PC, I watch TV.I used to argue with him all the time because of this:))But now I've shown some teeth and........problem's solved.Good luck to you
2007-01-19 07:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by bilezlatko 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol
i think she is really crazy give her a taste of her own medicine even though u cant solve evil with evil but people like her need stuff like that done to them to help them realize what they have ....or on the other hand if u dont want to be as cruel as shes being to u just talk to her and ask her why is she actin like this..maybe if she knows it bothers u she'll stop......or maybe shes just a spoiled brat...dont know but hope that helps...
2007-01-19 07:41:08 · answer #5 · answered by Video Phone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
c'mon is she the same girlfriend who talks to her ex who wants her back and found on her cell "i arrived bebe, where r u from a guy who likes her who at the same time is her friends boyfriend and same woman who dumbed u and same who had ur baby 4 month ago.....all ur questions seems to becontradicted...i doubt that there r no girlfriend at all
2007-01-22 06:06:32 · answer #6 · answered by Ozza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I can not and did not tolerate filth tell the dirty chat to get in the tub or get going don't lower your standards for any one
2007-01-19 07:39:45 · answer #7 · answered by deb m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Handle her ? Maybe your Irritating to her !! you sir need to be girlfriend free you irritated over small things and so is she !
2007-01-19 07:39:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sounds annoying. People who are like that I wouldn't be able to handle. Good luck to you!
2007-01-19 07:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by Starfish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and believe me, we are not all like that...good thing she is just a girlfriend....that situation can be resolved. Good Luck...
2007-01-19 07:39:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋