i have a problem with my guy, and its about having sex, i have really expressed by self to him telling him dat i dont want sex till marriage but he kept disturbing me about it. i called off the relationship on two different ocassion. but he kept calling and texting. we understood each other sat down and settle the problem, but he want to confirm if really am a virgin. on two occasion i have finger inserted into my body but no penetration has occured. pls wat do i do for him to understand that i have no sexual intercourse
2007-01-18 23:01:13 · 7 answers · asked by Jecs O 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You have nothing to prove to him because there is no need for that. if you are saying it sincerely and then he doesnt trust you then he doesnt deserve your love. He is just after sex from you and that is really a bad recedent coz what will he do after having sex with you, leave you? you should ask yourself some questions and make the final decision yourseld. But one advice, do not give in to his sex demands even if thats the only thing that will save your relationship if you are not ready for it. Good luck girl
2007-01-18 23:10:55 · answer #1 · answered by Ayati 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he cared for you, he would respect your feelings about wanting to wait to have sex and he would believe you when you tell him you are still a virgin. This "finger insertion" checking is also FOREPLAY and if it hasn't happened already, could rupture the membrane known as the hymen. Then there would be no physical proof that you have not yet engaged in formal intercourse. If he doesn't respect you, at least YOU respect YOU!!
2007-01-18 23:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Stick to your plan, waiting until marriage to have sex is a great give for your husband.If your guy is true he will understand and respect up for it.
2007-01-18 23:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by me 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if he's pressured you to go that far, with that excuse, he's not going to stop pushing at you until he gets what he wants. get out now while you still have your ideals and your self respect. if he doesn't understand your desire to wait, nothing is going to make him.
2007-01-18 23:10:42 · answer #4 · answered by Renee B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with someone that doesn't want sex from you. Become a lesbian. Good luck
2007-01-18 23:06:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
he's just trying to control you and make you do something you don't want to do....you don't have to prove anything to him....tell him to grow up.....if he keeps pressuring you then he doesn't respect you and you should dump him...good luck
2007-01-18 23:07:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
he`s a fking jerk
you`ve got nothing to prove to him.
2007-01-18 23:04:19 · answer #7 · answered by lilbr0wnsuga 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋