We are not only call each other boyfriend/girlfriend but also he never introduces me to any of his friends (they are not that many but still,,,,) also he just got back from a month long trip and in his first weekend he is going to a party without me instead of spending time with me, he called me everyday when he was out of state and also we talk and see each other a lot (rather close) but I am confuse!!!!!? Shouldn’t he invite me to his friends’ party after 6 month? Don’t you think I am wasting my time? I forgot to say that we argue a lot as well! But when we are good we are really good and sweat with each other, PLEASE HELP! Should I end it?
2007-01-18 23:00:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah he's probably using you for sex. I mean if you haven't seen him for a month and he'd rather hang out with his goofball buddies to pick up on other girls, why would you even ask this question? You already know the answer.
2007-01-18 23:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe all the argueing you both have he's looking for someone esl and doesn't want you to be part of his friends..maybe it is time to push on look for someone esl. when guys don't want to be part and only call by phone and can't seem to get together..there is something wrong with this pictures..and if you do get together it could also mean that his friends are a bit busy and then he gets together with you..so think about the whole pattern here what truely is going on
2007-01-18 23:13:07 · answer #2 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your feelings. They say you want more from a guy. If you didn't need more, you wouldn't have those feelings. Although you are good together sometimes, your needs are not being met.
You should discuss it with him. If he can't understand, or doesn't want to put that much work into your relationship, its time to move on. As much as it may hurt, you will be happier in the long run.
2007-01-18 23:08:15 · answer #3 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would end it. He's wasting your time!! There are plenty of great guys out there who would treat you with the respect and kindness you deserve. Don't wait around for him to call you, go out and find a guy who will be happy to introduce you to his friends and be your boyfriend.
2007-01-18 23:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
grrr. I had one of those for two years. I say HAD. He'd go out, he'd drink, he'd flirt and who knows what else. I was not invited when he went out. I even ended up moving away and breaking it off, he convinced me to visit and he went out most of the day and and all night out of three days I was suppose to visit. I left early. what a waste of time and money. I was dreaming to think they can change. Watch for these kind of signs. ask him what the deal is- men need men time, but there should be you time too. also, his buddy's are second family, once he shows you off to them, that's a big step for him and shows he is committed
2007-01-18 23:09:06 · answer #5 · answered by mel 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-16 08:10:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you introduce yourself? tell them who you are if he won't, what do you o together? because it doesn't seem like you spend alot of time with him, like you want him to do everything,
EX: you know he is going to a party, go with him, don't wait to be invited, or just show up, like you didn't know he would be there, to see why he isn't taking you,
2007-01-18 23:40:04 · answer #7 · answered by brandonjb2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it.You argue alot and he doesnt want his freinds to know you are freinds meaning he is just being freindly.You are not special to him.He is just an aquitance and if you want a boyfriend then find one.
2007-01-18 23:07:49 · answer #8 · answered by jus-tus 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know about ending it but if he's not inviting you to hang out with his friends somethings up you should talk to him about it. Maybe he's using you if you're having sex with him
2007-01-18 23:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about the stand and disposition of your relationship with him, from his reply, if it is positive ask him why he does not introduce you to his friends dont just back up talk to him about it. no healthy relationships without ups and down ok.
2007-01-18 23:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Jecs O 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋