I alway's wanted to stay a virgin until i meet the right man, but my all freind's are saying i should lose it now, what do you think i should do ?
2007-01-18 22:56:36 · 25 answers · asked by xXJohnny Depps Secret LoverXx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is one of those times when you should listen to yourself more than your "friends". If they were truly your friends they would encourage you to do what you feel is right for yourself. There is nothing more special than your "first time" and it really should not be taken lightly. You should never go to bed with someone you don't truly love and are committed to. If you do then it is just cheap sex....a physical act that could cost you in many ways...pregnancy, STD's, depression...just to name a few. Don't make the same mistake that many others have, stay a virgin until you meet Mr. Right!! Best wishes
2007-01-18 23:24:23 · answer #1 · answered by Barbiq 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What can I say?
You should definitely wait for the right man. If you decide you want to lose your vrginity with him, do it.
But don't rush it. The fact all your friends have already lost theirs is not a reason. You should do it when YOU are ready and willing to. No sooner, and no later.
And, for the record - I don't say you have to marry the man first (or at all). Nor that you have to spend the rest of your day with him (if you will, and you'd be happy with it, that's great, but if not - it is not a tragedy).
Now, sex is a wonderful thing. However, IMHO, doing it without emotional engagement is just half of the fun.
Concluding - if you find a man you'd love, and you'd want to go to bed with him, go for it as soon as you feel you're ready for that.
If you don't have someone like that - take your time until you find one.
And remember - sex is fun, but it also does bring responsibility. To both of you. So - better safe, than sorry (in every aspect!)
2007-01-19 07:09:11 · answer #2 · answered by mat_wisniewski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lose your virginity when you feel it is the right time. You may want it to be an experience you will always cherish so do not give in to peer pressure, even though it can be very strong. Learn more about relationships and sexuality before you involve yourself in the sexual acts. They can be devastating to your person and womanwood if not properly handled in a mature and responsible way. There are fewer people like you these days so it would be good for you to do the right thing at the right time when you feel most prepared. Good luck.
2007-01-19 07:07:19 · answer #3 · answered by 1967 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No its your choice really if your not ready then wait i think you should find that right one for you or wait untill you get married because you should not be in a hurry to give it up just wait because 18 is young to start to and there is so many things that could happen so be safe!!!and dont do it 4 any body else only your self.
2007-01-19 07:42:39 · answer #4 · answered by Riyonna D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should listen to your own heart. DON'T lose your virginity just because friends tell you to. # 1 it isn't any of their business. They should actually be happy for you. So what kind of friend are they. Most likely jealous ones. I say GOOD for you girl. Stay a virgin UNTIL YOU are ready to lose it. And don't lose it to a guy just because he is a hunk. Lose it because YOU want to, and do it with a guy you truly have feeling for minimum. Good Luck girl regardless what you do.
2007-01-19 07:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No no no no no no no no no no!!!!!!!!
Keep it!! Once you lose it, you will never ever ever get it back!!!
Save it for your husband. It will be the best thing you can ever give him as a wedding present!!!
Please don't listen to your friends. That is peer pressure and what they are trying to do is wrong! You are your own person. Don't let them convince you that giving into losing your virginity is the right thing to do because it is NOT.
Trust me! I know. My husband was a virgin and I am SOOOO very grateful for it! He is too! He tells me all the time that he is glad that he waited for me! It means so much to me that I actually found a person with such strength, conviction and self confidence in himself to save himself that I was absolutely blown away and wanted to be with him even more!
STand your ground girl! Don't give in. Don't give it up!
2007-01-19 07:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by †♥mslamom♥† 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your heart, not your friends. Losing your virginity can, and should be a very special moment. when the right time, and person come along you will know it.
2007-01-19 08:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by GENE D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no no..stick to your own values..don't let your friends push you..things like that have girls get pregnant and you have children that you don't want and if the guys finds out your out ..they leave you stuck with the child..do you want that kind of life and not wait til you find the right guy..too many girl think having sex feels good but never think what happens when they find out they are pregnant..and plus if the guy doesn't want to be part of her or the baby and when a girls get it removed..it wrecks your life of thinking did you do the right thing to take a life.? so think about it..i sure would not wants this and plus what about the disease he maybe Carrie and he may not know it and you get one of them and there is no cure..it is a very dangerous and scary world out there when your not safe
2007-01-19 07:05:00 · answer #8 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask John Malkovich he is on the Yahoo 7, he was in Dangerous Liaisons, master of deception
2007-01-19 07:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by Tonia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when you are ready. There is nothing wrong with being a virgin take your time. It is your body and no one elses.
2007-01-19 07:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋