Hey, ive become very confused, see i have liked a girl for about 3 years and she feels the same about me but we have never got togeather because she lives so far away, but now i see her quite alot and my feelings for her and getting stronger and harder to ignore! But the bad part is that a have a girlfriend that i also really like, and this is really putting me down, can anyone help. I donno what to do!
2007-01-18 22:47:42 · 10 answers · asked by Louis P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's so much more tempting to do the wrong thing as opposed to the right thing.
Just consider how you would feel if the boot was on the other foot.
I think you should keep the respect she has for you, and be totally honest with her. It means if it does not work out, you may lose a girlfreind, but you'll keep a freind. We cannot help who we're attracted to. It will hurt her like hell no doubt, but when she reflects, she may really thank you. I always say, what is for you will never pass you. On a cautionary note, is the other woman freinds with you and your woman, and the longer your deceit continues the harder it will be to come clean. good luck, with whatever choice/s you make. tc
2007-01-18 23:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by michael j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds quite simple to me... you like the other girl, the other girl likes you... Let your girlfriend down gently. It will be much worse if you end up cheating on her! At least if you end it now, there is still a chance you could still be mates. You never know, your girlfriend could be having doubts about you!
2007-01-19 07:38:28 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Miss Inquisitive♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's tough to go through, but ask yourself with which of the ladies can you imagine living together for the rest of your life, that should give you your answer.
2007-01-19 07:03:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jocz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask yourself if you really want to be with this girl is she worth it, and would you give up your girlfriend for her, once u know that its sorted. just don't cheat on your girlfriend o.k
2007-01-19 06:55:11 · answer #4 · answered by taylor09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the person that YOU can offer yourself. It isn't about who you're dating it's about what you can do for that person. Choose carefully.
2007-01-19 07:01:21 · answer #5 · answered by KD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should approach the girl and say what will posibly comes up in your mind.
2007-01-19 07:00:38 · answer #6 · answered by Dave Melchor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break off a relationship befre u start another
2007-01-19 06:59:10 · answer #7 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to the song by Willie Nelson. "Why do I have to choose?"
Good luck! : )
2007-01-19 07:05:53 · answer #8 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing while you have a girlfriend !
2007-01-19 06:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by truth_and_time_tells_all 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be ashamed of yourself.
2007-01-19 06:57:35 · answer #10 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋