he had stopped taking calls & responding 2 txt msgs, bit less than a wk ago, finnally got thru 2 him yesterday because he didnt kno it was me. says that he feels like hes leading me on & just dosen't feel right i had considered it over not long after the communication stopped. but he spoke 2 me on msn not long before i had 2 go 2 work & says that we should talk after the weekend, (we're both working)
& i do truely think that he will miss me, we got on so well & i would buy the drinks & chocolate 4 him that he can have because hes a diabetic, lil things like that.
i mean what would he have 2 say? he doesnt love me like that anymore, i dont think it would just be 2 exchange our stuff, so i dont kno
2007-01-18 22:46:52 · 10 answers · asked by jd 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know ask him when you see him
2007-01-18 22:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello!! sometimes, we feel that the other person is aware of our feelings which in fact not true as always. there are instances, where we are the only person loving and the other person is merely receiving our love.
based on your statements, you pointed out that you think that he misses you. i do admit we do think of what is pleasing to us but try to understand that at this stage you exactly don't know of what he really thinks.
it is important to know, that we will not jump into conclusions, because the more we expect, the more we are susceptible to pain.
prepare yourself for the worst, when you will meet him. tell him nice things, how wonderful back then when both you have constant communication. ask him what could have gone wrong? is it you or it is him. let him feel that you are aware of what is happening. that you are not only thinking about yourself.
let him feel that if both you will separate each other, you will certainly feel pain. but the pain that you will feel is a kind pain that he will feel of losing YOU.
if by chance he will speak it out, that he will continue his life moving on, leaving you behind. tell him, how grateful you have been with him. the laughter, the tears, and the memories is very fruitful for you. i know and i understand that this things that i am saying is very difficult to do. for you have invested your time and feelings on this relationship and then suddenly it just faded away.
look into the bright side, if one door closes another opens for a golden opportunity. dont be sadden, be cheerful for you again will experience a new beginning of friendship.
As the saying goes: "Behind that clouded storm, lies the golden sun".
:-)
2007-01-19 07:08:40 · answer #2 · answered by June 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar-free chocolate, that's so sweet! Many guys in this world would apprechiate a good-hearted girl like you. Now, you just have to let go and find that special guy.
A caring girl like you deserves a caring boyfriend.
2007-01-19 07:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Kerosa S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thing can change... situations change and people change.. you cannot hold on, just because you had a good time in the past .. it is the present that matters and counts...
try to move on with ;life.. if he really miss you he will tell you n come back to you...
be prepare to face the worst but hope for the best...
2007-01-19 06:57:33 · answer #4 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You owe it to no one but yourself! You wouldn't get onboard a sinking ship. You wouldn't get a Job with a Company that's closing it's Doors. Why would you wanna have feelings. For someone that has no feelings for you. You're much better than that.
2007-01-19 06:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to tell you that he is deeply moved by all your calls and sms but i's time you moved on. That's clear from the way he's been acting lately!
Just be careful, if he asks you to go back to his place with him, say NO. Trust me, it will save you.
2007-01-19 06:52:27 · answer #6 · answered by stiletto 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs time to think things over. You're making things too convenient for him by buying him things and being at his beckon call.
2007-01-19 06:58:37 · answer #7 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
iT SOUNDS TO ME AS IF HE DOSENT LOVE HIM SELF. IF YOU DONT LIKE YOUR SELF YOU CANT LIKE ANOTHER OR LOE ANOTHER UNLESS YOU LOVE YOUR SELF. I SAYTO YOU TO THY OWN SELF BE TRUE. LUST IS NOT WHER IT IS AT,AFTER A LITTLE WHILE YOU FIND YOUR SELF DOIG THE WHILEY,E.
WAKEN UP AND CHEWEN YOUR ARM OFF TO GET AWAY. WHY DONT YOU BACK IT UP A HOLE LOT AND TRY TO BE FRIENDS. THEN SEE WHERE IT ENDS UP. DONT MOTHER OR SMOTHER HIM HE KNOWS HE HAS A MEDICAL PROBLEM AND HE WANTS TO HANDLE IT HIS SELF LIKE A BIG BOY . I ALSO FEEL HIS MOTHER OF SOME OTHER FEMALE FIGURE IN HIS LIFE PROBADLY SMOTHERD AND ISOLATED HIM AND HES FREE AND LIKEING IT. BE HIS FRIEND IFFF HE WILL LET YOU AND SEE WHATS UP CHICK.
2007-01-19 07:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by walter c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone that appreciates you.
you deserve better!
life is short.
2007-01-19 07:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dont like you...NEXT
2007-01-19 06:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋