I was afraid that my boyfriend of almost one month was about to dump me so I desided to beat him to it so earlier this morning, I dumped him. I then found out he really liked me and wasn't gonna dump me and wanted to make it work. I thought by beating him to it, I would do myself a favor by not getting my heart broken but now I am REALLY regretting it and I hate myself for doing it. I thought the dumper was supposed to have NO feelings about it but I was wrong i guess. isn't the dumper supposed to be a brick or do they have emotions too? all the other times I dumped various guys it had no effect on me but this time I'm in a lot of pain emotionally and I can't stop crying... should I try to get him to see how wrong I was and see if I can get back with him or just say I screwed up and at least we agreed to still talk and be friends even tho we established we really like each other we decided that one day it may work out but now is really not a good time. what should I do?
2007-01-18 22:41:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You obviously feel this way coz you dumped your boyfriend for all the wrong reasons. But I think you need to develop your self esteem a little more because you sound like you didnt trust your position with this guy, hence you dumped him.
As for trying to win him back, it could be a good decision but on the other hand, it could seriously question your credibility. Just make sure that in future, you dont do anything unless you are completely sure!
2007-01-18 22:49:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you that it's better to be the dumper. It's so sad you lost someone you really liked due to a terrible misjudgement on nyour part. Guess what?.......... I think you both can still work it out since you both still really like each other. After this incident, i hope you learn how important TRUST is in a relationship...
2007-01-19 06:48:35 · answer #2 · answered by Femi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet up with him and have great hard "get back together" s e x sessions!! That should solve the problem.
Good luck!
2007-01-19 06:47:39 · answer #3 · answered by GypsyBoy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are in love and are desperate.... take your time and give him breathing space too... it will come out fine over time.
2007-01-19 06:47:03 · answer #4 · answered by relaxplease2005 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋