I met this guy at a club, we exchanged numbers.And he asked me out later that week.Iv been seeing him since then, its been a lil more than 2 weeks.He doesnt really call me or sms me regularly.More like sms me when he wants to meet up.I mus add..meeting up also means doing the deed.When we do see each other we talk alot and there is an awesome connection..But I do not understand if he really likes me or wants anything from this..or if this wierd relationship can move forward. I do not like to be the one to call/sms everytime as I don wanna seem lika needy chik..whats you're take on this situation.Should I say something to him or jus play along?
2007-01-18 22:40:45 · 14 answers · asked by trueblue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that it seems he enjoys spending time with you but isnt ready for the big C (committment), so this is his way of having best of both worlds. I suggest you invite him over for a couple of drinks, relax and have a big chat. TELL HIM how you want things to be, and ask him what he wants. He might be thinking you want nothing too serious, so he is playing it cool, a little too cool. If he doesnt tell you what you wanna hear, then its upto you to decide whether or not, you want to accept that. good luck and remember he will treat you, as good or bad as you let him
2007-01-18 22:54:18 · answer #1 · answered by mumofthree81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
doesn't sound good to me either. u can check him - just do not contact him for a while. see what happens. maybe u re not giving him a chance to call u first as u re always on the phone to call him. just disappear. if he calls u and invites u say u re busy. see whether he will attempt contacting u again. if he will it means smth can grow out of this. if he won't attempt any contacts with u or wouldn't seem that eager to meet with u - u know the answer
ps. please do not follow this delusional person's advice and tell him how u feel - if he is just using u u will look ridiculous. exit with dignity at least
2007-01-18 22:46:52 · answer #2 · answered by jacky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this does not sound like a relationship that will go anywhere. if you want a "boyfriend" and not just a guy to sleep with, that you happen to get along with when you do, then he is not the one and it's best to move on. but if the deed is all you're looking for too, go with it and don't stress.
2007-01-18 22:50:46 · answer #3 · answered by Renee B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your a booty call for this guy. I don't think he's that into you. If a guy is really into he calls and wants to take you on real dates.
2007-01-18 22:48:24 · answer #4 · answered by Dormir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is not a relationship yet, you meet when he want you and do it so is using you 4 sex, try to talk to him if he ready for commitment toward this if he is not find your self another person how will treat you with respect
2007-01-18 23:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by badboyisawickedman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing along perpetuates it, saying something stops it, now, you decide.
2007-01-18 22:44:55 · answer #6 · answered by boombabybob 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, girly, but you are just a booty call. Move on...
2007-01-18 22:43:24 · answer #7 · answered by j_mang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your his booty call hon.
2007-01-18 23:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Bootsy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not in a relationship. You are his piece of @ss.
2007-01-18 22:43:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him how you feel otherwise he'll have no clue about what you're thinking
2007-01-18 22:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋