ok i have a bf and i love him dearly, promise, but i like this other guy but he lives in a different state, hes the second cuttest guy i ever met and also has alot of sense,but he makes me depressed cause hes always sad and when i try to help him i do but it pulls off on me so what should i do?
2007-01-18 22:30:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i dont want the second person to be my bf, hes my friend but makes me sad
2007-01-18 22:41:21 · update #1
if you dont want the second person to be your bf then forget him. Keep the friendship if you are strong enough too be friends-only friends with this second guy and keeping healthy relationship with your man. If you really love your guy a lot every other person interested in you, everytime, will make you go sad.. cause you love your guy. And following the "laws of attraction" if sometime You did got attracted to someone which at time you wont except cause our heart itself wont let us except it, that time also you will feel nervous. In short it is like, You love your guy a lot but are confused cause of others. Just forget others if someone makes you feel nervous then dont listen to your head just listen to your heart, following the upper mentioned things. Quit the friendship if possible to keep your relationship healthy. And the most important in end i wud just say is that, Such a things are like, YOU understand the best frm your place. When you will go to ask others , some else picture will stand infront of their eyes and they will tell you something else. And in this way you get confused. YOU know your situation the BEST. Listen to your own self. Cause this is something which may AFFECT or CHANGE your life. Go for your own heart and the results will be awesome!!!
2007-01-18 23:50:33 · answer #1 · answered by Just wanna do it man!!!!! A Love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like the 2nd guy is trying to make you feel guilty (and it's usually because either 1- they want to date you themselves & don't know how to go about it or 2- because they're jealous & the rest of part 1.) So even though he make make sense on some things, it doesn't on this. I'd give him a chance to clear things up but if he keeps blaming you, I'd stay away. He's not worth it.
2007-01-18 22:38:01 · answer #2 · answered by Qmd86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are like a bird that is yearning to fly.
Get out of the cage.
Get rid of the BF that you love dearly and try out with this other cute guy. It is better than regretting later.
2007-01-18 22:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you've got deep feelings for this other guy. If that's the case, either break up with your boyfriend and date the cute guy who makes you depressed, or stick with your man. You can't have the best of both worlds if you want a peaceful relationship. It's either your boyfriend or the other guy. If you'll ask me, stick to your boyfriend. He deserves more of your love and attention than the other one.
2007-01-18 22:43:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with the person who is the cutest you have ever met. that is really pointless dumping him over someone who you will hardly ever see. now as im guessing your boyfreind dont no you are on this then you should dump him to because you are with him and you like someone else and he doesnt no. you can do what ya like but this maybe good advice. hope you alot of luck. if you want to email me then ya can. k. frosty
2007-01-18 22:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Kid Fro$ty / $up3rman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the guy in the other state. If he brings you down, no matter what you feel for him, you will always be depressed around him and that's not they way to live your life.
2007-01-18 22:36:48 · answer #6 · answered by jingles 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who's the first cutest guy ever? Maybe you should try for him. Set your bars high when you are young cause they can only go down as you age. Good luck
2007-01-18 22:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no.. you should talk to him. let him know what you want him to know and never mind if you pulls off in him that is natural. keep in mind that your bf is not just as sure as become you future husband, He still afters your decisions. If you love your bf so much it doesn't mean that you can't seek another one. But please, if you love both of them let no one hurt the process.
2007-01-18 22:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Dave Melchor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick with your boyfriend. If this other guy is bringing you down its no good for you. PLus he lives far away. Besides there's more to person than just looks
2007-01-18 22:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be indifferent or let him go. He needs a different kind of help and it's only going to drag you down to keep trying and getting nowhere with him.
2007-01-18 22:35:18 · answer #10 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋