2007-01-18 22:27:05 · 16 answers · asked by YO YO YO WASSUP 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
never had sex on the first date..if a girl does she very rarely gets a 2nd date...guys dont like easy girls for girlfriends.
2007-01-18 22:30:28 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 3⤊ 7⤋
I've done it and have found that it doesn't affect the length of the relationship. If the guy was only interested in sex with me and nothing more, having sex with him on the first date would help me find that out all the sooner. And nothing will stand in the way If he is meant to be the love of my life.
Of course that doesn't mean I think it's a good idea for women to have sex on the first date or else you end up having sex with a lot of guys that only want sex and nothing else! So it's better to wait until you are reasonably sure that they guy is interested in a relationship if you are looking for more than sex with him.
2007-01-19 06:52:20 · answer #2 · answered by Jump Back 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure I've had sex on a first date. But that's just one night stands. I never did that when I wanted a relationship. And no, a girl doesn't necessarily have to be drunk or drugged in order to have sex with a man from the first night. It's all about what you want.
2007-01-19 06:50:34 · answer #3 · answered by ioolia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i doesnt effect the length of the relationship at all if theres enough love and other interest there! I "put out" on the first date and we're now happy living together talking about marriage and kids!.. it worked out well for me! lol
2007-01-19 06:37:34 · answer #4 · answered by peachesandcream 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex with my partner on our first date, Im still with him 8 years later and we're expecting our first child the day before his birthday. If men worry about a girl putting out to early maybe their not mature enough to understand sex and women
2007-01-19 06:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by mummy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i haven't had sex on a first date but it doesn't affect the lenght of the relationship except all the guy was after was a piece of ***.
as a matter of fact i kno a lot of girls who shagged on the 1st date n r still going strong with their bf's.
2007-01-19 06:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by verynigeriangal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the time, it doesn't effect the length but it does cause more problems to arise in the relationship. Such as jealously fear of cheating ect. It doesn't make you easy btw sometimes people just feel when the time is right. Not eveyone is that closed minded
2007-01-19 06:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by ProudToBeWhite 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
i think ppl should wait...at least till 3rd date...coz that way u dun come as too easy to a guy...
but if he doesn't mind...then length of relationship doesn't depend on that factor
2007-01-19 06:43:27 · answer #8 · answered by Forever happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots and if you too really like each other should not make a difference
2007-01-19 07:38:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As far as I can see it has no bearing on the length of the relationship whatsoever.
2007-01-19 06:30:04 · answer #10 · answered by Misha-non-penguin 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
no i slept with my ex before we was even technically dating and weve now been together 3 yrs and got a house together and cats.
so it can work if you work at it
2007-01-19 06:34:20 · answer #11 · answered by sweetness 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋