Does she like me?Me and my fren (girl) have been very close. I once told her my feelings. And since then, we've really came to a stage where we were more than friends(but not couples). She is 1 year older than me and therefore moving overseas to study. B4 she left, i asked her out just to meet up but she said she will contact me later since she was bz with Xmas. But since Christmas Eve, i have not seen her or even heard a word from her. She has left somewhere else to study..., i sent her a mail and i even called her on new year asking her to come down from her home. But i couldnt get thru to her phone. Unfortunately, i still have not heard a word from her till last week when she sent me a mail. It was about her life overseas. She said she may reply me late but somehow she will find time, so she asked me to keep emailing her. I dont know if i shud ask her about the outing we were supposed to go and i dont know if i shud reply her b/c of wat happened( the outing and not talking to me
2007-01-18 22:22:30 · 16 answers · asked by Fr3e@K3D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think she just wants to be friends and you need to come to terms with this. if she wanted more or felt more for you she would of found the time to contact you before the time she did.
when you care for someone, they are always on your mind, you obviously were not on her mind. im sorry to say this to you but you should just move on with your life.
remain friends with her and email her but do your own thing, she is overseas now and doing her own thing. good luck.
2007-01-18 22:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is really bewildering....
If I were in your shoes I will consider the following BRAIN STORMING:
1) She likes me to a certain extent, but not quite hooked up with me.
2) She doesn't want to be in constant contact so that the feeling of lonliness does not become overwheming on her while she has to be in a good state of mind for her studies...
3) She likes me, but she is not absolutely sure I was the right guy...
4) She wants me to still be around; i.e., KEEP SENDING HER E MAILS, but she may have a kind of a thought that Mr. Perfect will show up one of these days, so she doesn't want to commit herself to anything with me...
5) She wants to SHOW her friends how much THAT GUY likes me, sending all those E Mails to her, while all she has got inside of her is nothing but emptiness...
6) She wants to give herself a fair chance for some more time to ensure she doesn't find someone else with (better Qualities, or a Better Character, or better anything...etc. no hard feelings my friend), and once she is assured NOTHING OF THAT IS ATTAINABLE, then she will come back...
7) She doesn't like me to that extent, but she doesn't want to say it straight to me...
8) She wants me to stay in contact, so that ONCE SHE IS TOYALLY FREE, she will shower me with all the kindness & tenderness I was awaiting to get from her...
9) She doesn't know what she wants till the moment....
10) She is seeing someone else momentarily, and cannot show me what's in her heart....
I'M SORRY MY FRIEND, BUT THIS IS MY WAY OF READING HER REACTION, AND THIS IS ONLY A BRAIN STORM....
So, you may wish to take the above as your own Brain Storm, plus whatever you have in your heart & mind, and simply TELL HER WHAT YOU FEEL, and ask her for an answer, with hesitation....
Afterall, it is her life, and your decision on what to do next...
2007-01-18 22:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow long story..
since she is somewhere far busy with her studies or whatever i think she wants to keep her options open.. i mean your there and she's somewhere else it will be very hard if you guys have a relationship.. maybe she wants to date some dude at her school or she just cares about you so much that she wants everything to stay the same between you two.. i dont know if she is trying to ignore your calls or she's leading you on but it really sounds like you care about her very much and you know what? any girl would be lucky to have someone like you.. find a nice girl and take care of her..
2007-01-18 22:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorrry to tell you this but she is overseas studying,and is meeting new people.and women have this thing for europian guys.so shes probably dating men her own age and older,but still wants your friendship.its nice to get calls and mail from home.but it sounds like shes outgrown you.if you had a chance with her she would have made time for you over x-mas..but she didnt.so be her friend,remember how great the sex was,and turn it into a beautiful memory and go on with your life..shes gone and doing it with someone else right now.so let her go,find a girl who wants you back,and still be a friend and shoot her an email once in a while.i know it hurts,but its part of life.good luck my friend and may God be with you in this time of sadness.
2007-01-18 22:36:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your overthinking and difficulty approximately no longer something, in case you point out all those issues then you definately'll in basic terms push her away. in basic terms enable her stay her existence and be satisfied for her, coach some activity in what she's doing, be her chum such as you have consistently been, if something else happens then it happens, do no longer rigidity lots approximately it or you will self destruct.
2016-10-31 12:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay, it seems 2 me that she needs her space,but not 2 much space,because y'all would be 2 far apart. give it time b4 u write her. make her wait on u.You had 2 wait on her. chill out ,relax,and take thing as they come. Let her make the first move. she might nit want a relationship right now,and she might come 2 u later. just b calm. thing will work out 4 u & her.
hope i helped .if not just a little.
bye
2007-01-18 22:40:19 · answer #6 · answered by honey.. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r relationship with her is of best friend Not more than that , then be a good friend of her . Don't pressure her to change her feelings that might make it worst .,Just try to convince her a little if u let .
But now i think u should accept her thoughts & try to live a good live without her .
2007-01-18 22:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by dilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE LIKES YOU!!! You said you received a ltter from her and she asked you to continue to email her. I believe she's been too busy in her studies to communicate. I think you are worried over nothing. Ask her out, she'll probably appreciate the break from school.
2007-01-18 22:33:46 · answer #8 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. am not gonna say ignore her or forgot her or move on.. because you guys are close friends.. your friend likes you, but in which way it is difficult to tell. gals can be really confusing.... she needs time and she is taking time...if u think she is worth waiting you can wait for her.. new place , studies takes lotz of time to adjust.. she might simply be busy...she wats to keeep in touch but maybe it is not possible for her to come to meet you.. why donot u go n meet her..
well all you gotta do is hang on.. all the best...
2007-01-18 22:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you need to discuss your relationship with her to see where you stand with her so that you can move on if she is no longer interested.Sometimes mail can be late so keep trying.
2007-01-18 22:31:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋