Been dating a guy 4 months. Been intimate a few times. He hasn't mentioned wanting to be exclusive, but says he likes me a lot. I feel the same about him. We write emails daily but yesterday I didn't write and he sent a note "Too busy to write,eh?"
Another time he wrote " I assume you had a heavy date and didn't have time to write."
Comes off saracastic instead of asking if everything is ok or whatever.
This is starting to p*ss me off.
Why is he doing this and how do I respond?
Thanks
2007-01-18 22:07:13 · 15 answers · asked by Patricia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Apparently, he is trying to tell you he misses you to a certain extent, but then he is reluctant to say it straight...
Maybe he fears that put him off...that's why he is hesitant to take the initiative...
You can reply reasonably with an initiative saying you missed him for the past few days or so, and this will encourage him to say what's in his heart...
He needs to be assured of your feelings towards him so that he better reflects his feelings towards you with better words....
I think the guy has some warm feelings in his hearts, and it is up to you to make him better understands his feelings within him...
Jealousy is there, and you must have seen it in his words...
Send him a line telling him there was no heavy Date or something like that, and you will see to it that he comes back strong on you with his words...
HELP HIM SAY IT OUT, LOUD AND CRYSTAL CLEAR...
2007-01-18 22:21:38 · answer #1 · answered by FOREVER AUTUMN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, be careful, I think he's starting to get possessive of you. I don't know, but this usually happens. You said that you've been going out and communicating with him steadily, right? Until you didn't have time to write him an email. Maybe he thinks that you already lost your interest in him, or maybe he wants your attention all the time that's why he's acting like that.
To make things worse, you two doesn't even have an offcial relationship, and you're still on the dating phase.
To fix things up, you may want to talk to him about it (or email him). Ask him why is he acting like this. Tell him that it will do him no good and will make things worse between the two of you if he still continues to act strange. If he doesn't, well I think you're off better getting pissed, because he's definitely not a deserving guy for you. Just feel sorry for him if everything else fails. It's his loss anyway! lol ^_^
2007-01-18 22:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by Chuwariwap 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont take his words seriously. He loves you more thatswhy he wrote like that. Its showing jelous and love. Jelous comes from love. Whenever he writes like this ... you shd feel happy thats he is loving u more and caring u more. He needs all ur love to him. All your time with him. Dont use words like 'I am busy. I cnt mail u'. Just do mail everyday as it shows care abt him in u. Ur relationship stays forever if both of u are expressive.
2007-01-18 22:23:15 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want him to be exclusive and only date you? From the way you desribe it he only wants sex from you without any commitment. If he's getting rude and disrespectful of you I think may be its time to dump him.
2007-01-18 22:28:14 · answer #4 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably like idk lol but i do know that thats just the way guys are they get jealous over nothing. my advice is to ask him how he really feels about you and if y'all want to start dating and if he says no u can always come back with a smart *** comment like "oh well i gotta go get ready for my heavy date that i missed the other day because i just had to talk to you!" point blank anywayz guys are asshole and thats never gonna change! they think they arent but idk they just are and they might not even know it lol
2007-01-18 22:13:40 · answer #5 · answered by falloutbecca 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be just playing around with you to see if you will write back to him sooner. He could also just be very insecure and wanting to control you.
2007-01-18 23:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is trying to push you away for one reason or another. I would ask him up front what his deal is. See what he says and decide for yourself if this is what you want or if you feel you deserve better, and follow your heart.
-NmD!
2007-01-18 22:17:05 · answer #7 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he's TRYING to be funny but is obviously not doing very well)...also, he may be the "insecure type of guy" who will later on **** up whole relationship with his jelaousy...many things can be the case
2007-01-18 22:13:47 · answer #8 · answered by Jellyfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
becoz he really care about u..either me..my bf will get upset if i reply late his sms..it's mean..he love u girl..so write email for him now!!
2007-01-18 22:12:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is one of those jealous guys.If you don't like him,try stop seeing him for a while.
2007-01-18 22:15:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋