I have made a birthday card for this girl I like and her birthday falls this weekend. I have told her my feelings few months b4 and she said just want to be friends.
I have just put that card in her bag (as an anonymous, then few hours later I plan to text her to ask her what she thinks of the card (then it might be a surprise for her; I never made a card for someone before).
How should I text her? 'Hello, i made you a birthday card and please look at your bag'???
What would she think of that? Angry?
2007-01-18 21:42:48 · 10 answers · asked by Mr Asker Knowmore 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can write a question in the card then you text her the answer at the end of the day or text something that matches the thing you wrote in the card
keeping her guessing is half the fun... just sending her the answer will give her the hint that you are the one who left the card
example: in the card"Today the sweetest angel is celebrating her birthday"
then text her "Happy birthday sweet angel"
2007-01-18 22:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by hotblondebabegurl83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if she's told you that she wanted to be just friends then that was probably the truth. If she wanted to be with you she would and will let you know when she's ready. Instead of sending her an anonymous card (which is creepy) you should have just givin her a regular card and signed your name. She would have appreciated that more than you being weird about it. She already knows you like her quit being pushy, b/c that's just not cool.
2007-01-19 06:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by DiG iT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she would be angry. I think that's really sweet! You could just text her and say "Look in your bag," and a few minutes later text again and say "Do you like it?" Or "I made you something for your birthday look in your bag."
2007-01-19 05:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by Dormir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she will think you are pathetic...if she said she wants to be just friends then do her a favour and keep it that way...i know its not easy.
dont text her, she will be disappointed to know the card is from you and not from the guys she has been secretly admiring for the last 5 weeks... you know what I mean?
if she mentions the card to you then tell her its yours if she doesnt dont say anything about it.
p.s: texting is for sissies...call her up, say: hey XX, happy birthday!!! let me take you out for a drink to celebrate this...
2007-01-19 05:48:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jellyfish 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just text a simple "I hope you found my card"... by then she will have found it and be wondering who it's from so it'll be obvious without sounding childish or desperate.
I don't really understand why you made an anon. card if you're going to tell her who it's from...
2007-01-19 05:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Extra_Sweetcorn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
'happy birthday..hopefully u like it (birthday card)'..then after she found out..u should said '..i never made a card for someone before..just for u..'..then u smile... >.<
2007-01-19 05:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to move on and quit doing "nice cute things" for your friend. she has already told you that she is not interested, so it might make her annoyed and whatever friendship you do have you will be risking destroying. It will probably make her feel uncomfortable.
2007-01-19 05:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by Dayout6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i thought you want to surprise her...you don't need to text her. She'll text you ;-) that's really sweet of you. now i have to check if i have a card in my bag...oops it's not you.
well she won't get angry! i'm sure she'll appreciate that but don't expect her to express more than saying thanks.
2007-01-19 05:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Beanie.beanie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she will find it cute.She wont be mad if you respect her.Dont text her too much.It can get expensive,and you wife might wonder.
2007-01-19 05:50:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she whould probally be happy knowign that u remembered her birthday!!! just say wat did u get for ur b-day? and if she says a anonymous card say that it was from you!!
good luck
Kelse
2007-01-19 05:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Kelse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋