I haven't had a proper relationship with a boy. I love someone that I see everyday but he doesn't even know I exsist. Whats wrong with me and how can I get guys to notice me.
2007-01-18 21:20:12 · 18 answers · asked by owenmad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him, don't just wait around for him to notice you.
2007-01-18 21:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by rtobor84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 21 before I had a proper relationship. I was 18 before I even kissed a boy. I'm now 27 married and have three kids. I think that the most important thing is to be true to yourself and confident in who that person is. I found also that after my first relationship I gained a Little experience and I realised that if I guy doesn't notice you hes not worth it. Lastly I can tell you that you always meet guys when you least except it.
2007-01-19 05:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by bella0104baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Did you ever think that may be he has noticed you but he's too shy to talk to you? Times have changed girlie.. You can't leave it to the fellas all the time! I think your main problem is you confidence. I've no doubt you have a lot to offer any guy but you need to start believing in yourself before any one else will. I can honestly say if you stand tall walk as if you 're on cloud 9 and smile like you've won the lotto people will notice you. I'm not saying be fake but walk strong.. When you show confidence you feel much better about yourself any way which triggers other things naturally.
I'm not saying that particular guy will notice you but isn't it worth a try...Who knows who you'll meet and what will happen..
Good Luck!
2007-01-19 05:31:07 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to get noticed and soon. Change your wardrobe. Just walk/ or observe the fly girls in school and see how they handle themselves.
Do some hair job, put on make up and show some make up.
Invest in a pair of heels.
Smile while you talk and look people in the eye.
Spread a rumour about yourself e.g. I am dating an older guy but we are not very serious ...make sure it gets to some blabber mouth and see how you get popularity(good)
Join activities and clubs that are famous.
About this guy start talking to his bfriend casually and get to know about your crash esc. his weaknesses
2007-01-19 05:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by cynnie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with you, try flirting a little when you with him, try and read the signals, if your not getting much back then stop before it goes to far and you get rejected if he is keen he will flirt back and you can take it a day at a time, go out for drinks with him and some of your mutual friends and just make yourself noticed.
good luck
2007-01-19 05:54:15 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're perfectly ok. Nothing wrong with you.
You expect something to happen. But this *something* is only your own desire.
When you grow older, you'll notice that we don't always get whatever we want.
Whenever you get what you want, celebrate, and be thankful.
If you want guys to notice you, be the first one to approach them and make friends.
2007-01-19 05:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Timeless - watcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with you .maybe this boy isnt looking for a relationship.just relax about the whole thing good things come to those who wait
2007-01-19 05:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by dee.jackson7@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's one person! The worlds full of fish. Go fishing and good luck!
2007-01-19 05:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by PhoenixRights 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should make a stand and stand out. then he should take notice. you need to make a change to your self like your hair then he should
2007-01-19 05:52:34 · answer #9 · answered by Amazing T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your own boyfriend, go to local dances etc
2007-01-19 05:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by Boscombe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋