2007-01-18 21:11:10 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
im so sorry for your lost and no i hate wen people make other people put time lines on there feelings take your time seek out help by all means my mom died a very long time ago and i still cry and miss her and always will but i promiss it gets better with time and what you do with that time seek out people that can help you talk to friends that will listen and the people that dont have the time or are afraid of taking about death will learn wen they go through something like you are right now dont give up seek professionel help is no sin some times we all need a little help lorie
2007-01-18 21:29:11 · answer #1 · answered by lorie v 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no limit to a grieving process, it really depends on how it effects a person, how close they were to them etc. 3 deaths in 6 weeks from one family can take a lot from a person. It will be a hard grief to conquer and some grievings stay with us for an eternity, we just choose to accept what has happened and go on with our lives. Death is hard, and grieving has no limit.
2007-01-19 05:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by Ana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is no "time limit". The key is to keep moving through the stages (and they overlap and sometimes you take a step backwards) of the grieving PROCESS. If you become "stuck" . . . as someone on here had been "saving himself for 8 years" for his divorced wife to return ... then that becomes problematical. As long as you are MOVING through the process, you are doing fine. Sometimes with a tragic loss such as you describe, some professional or pastoral help is needed.
2007-01-19 08:28:15 · answer #3 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say no there is no time set for grieving. If it is interfering with your day to day life like work and such i would advise getting some help. I has 14 people die in 11 months it started with my mom and ended with my grandma and loosing my baby I needed to get help there is no shame
2007-01-19 08:17:49 · answer #4 · answered by mommy2myboys2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no...grieving takes time..Everyone grieves at different speeds...but, time DOES help. It'll never heal completely, I know, but...it does help:)
2007-01-19 05:20:13 · answer #5 · answered by rosemary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do whatever you feel like, no two people are the same.
2007-01-19 05:23:05 · answer #6 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋