Hey im 15 and i was wonderin....why is it that the older guys as in not 5 years or watever but like at least 10 yrs are so damn attractive? Is it because they are free to do what they want? or is it because they seem so much more mature? Yea i know 15-18 is around the age u will get lots of crushes but like...ive left a post about my teacher and what about like even famous ppl. C'mon girls....n e one agree??
2007-01-18 21:06:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Older guys are more attractive. 1 word: maturity. Girls can look mature at 15 or 16. Guys usually don't start looking mature til they're over 20. I notice this with teenagers all the time. It's kinda scary how much older some girls look, so i can understand why guys can find high school girls attractive because a lot of them technically look like women!! However, when I look at high school guys, or HS guys from my high school year book, it amazes me how much younger they look than the same or similar age of teen girls. There's nothing really wrong w/ being attracted to one or the other (older to younger or vice versa), to some degree of course, but just be really careful that no one older takes advantage of you!
2007-01-18 21:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by curiousgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most are more mature, not all. I've known some men in their early 30's that act like their still 16.
but they do have more freedom, they make their own money, they don't rely on parents, they have their own car, they look, act, feel, touch, kiss, and talk different. I was 16 when I met my guy, I'm now going to be 21 soon and am still with him. I remember when i met him (he's 3-4 yrs older than me) that i looked up to him, like he was insightful and admirable, manly and protective. it's just all around different. my boyfriend before him was my age and although he was fun, i wanted maturity and someone who'd be serious with me. He wouldn't just break up with me for no good reason withing a couple months, he would commit, something you don't usually find in a 15 yr old. we want a guy that will go through the tough times with us without running away. when i was dating in my teens, those guys weren't at all serious about a relationship.
2007-01-18 21:26:34 · answer #2 · answered by Bitterly Sweet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, man, more confident, more experienced, have a job, don't live with mom, don't act immature, know how to treat a girl and not drive for sex right from the start.
Have an apartment, and a car, and can think of more thaing to talk about than their last X-Box 360 game where they totally smoked those guys.
Good luck, man, it just takes years.
2007-01-18 21:12:13 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you echoe the feelings related to me by my wife !
When I married her twenty years ago, she says I was not that "wholesome" to her. But now, in my mid-forties, she finds me much much more attractive, infact irresistable!
Not only her, so many other ladies in my locality, work-place and even in other places and countries are now falling for me in greater numbers than they used to in my younger days. Even girls in their teens are also acting the same way.
Don't ask me why this is happening, I don't know for sure.
But I have a guess !
You have to contact me directly at Bapi (my nickname) to know this.
2007-01-18 21:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by Bapi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most gals will find guys in that age mature and charming where in actual fact some of us don't
2007-01-18 21:23:05 · answer #5 · answered by Forgettable 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some time teen too good looking
2007-01-18 21:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by leandar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But younger guys are better in the sack...
2007-01-18 21:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by surfinthedesert 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think its because they are more confident and experience.
2007-01-18 21:09:29 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Chastons Wifey♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋