i have moved back in with my bf who now has two new additions living with him, his two mates, one is a grott and insists on having his crap music on all the time, so i get home from work and just hang in my room until my bf gets home. The other one is pretty clean but is kind of possessive with my bf, so what should i do.
2007-01-18 20:48:55 · 15 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Can't you move to another place just you and your boyfriend?Trust me,that would be the best thing to do! This might cost your relationship in the long run.I can explain for hours why young couples should live on their own, but there are so many examples in life - people avoid living even with the parents of one of the partners and there is a reason - young people need privacy,it will be better for both of you to know that you are coming to YOUR place and that you don't have to put up with anyone's character or moods.Also you will feel free to indulge yourselves in romance and pay more attention to each-other without feeling inconvenient from somebody seeing or interrupting you. If money is the problem,take some small place,it doesn't matter as long as it's only for the 2 of you - the price is worth paying! Have you ever thought of preparing a surprise dinner with candles just for the 2 of you,or taking a romantic bath together with soft music around and roses? I believe you have,but it's inconvenient because of your other mates. My advice is just do anything possible to get rid of them or the 2 of you move somewhere! Friends are fine when you can say "Goodbye" at one point and get back to your own life in your own house with your own love!Good luck!
2007-01-18 21:09:41 · answer #1 · answered by Victory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it as long as you can.You are probally saving a little money.I had to live with mother and sister inlaw for 4 months,before we bought house.That was 10 years ago,i feel for ya.Good luck!
2007-01-19 04:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start to leave your girl things all over the house, underwear etc. Your female hormone phermones will undoubtedly have all the males in the house synchronizing their periods with you & soon enough be putty in your hands.
2007-01-19 04:57:31 · answer #3 · answered by Juggernaut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your bf the truth how you filling, that you uncomfertable with his 2 mates (Don't decline it, because the longer you quite the longer you would solve it). And solve the problems together so both of you can feels comfertable with anyone in the house. :)
Good Luck!
2007-01-19 04:54:30 · answer #4 · answered by dirty_a_ngel1 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'd find the resources to move out. I cant imagine coming home from work to that mess. Good Luck.
2007-01-19 04:56:11 · answer #5 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you move out, and he can visit you and stay over a night soemtimes.
i really can't stand a man walking around when i really want to be nake or ******* scream out. so, you should move in to a new place, so you have a better mood and not stress you out.
2007-01-19 05:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move out.
2007-01-19 04:55:43 · answer #7 · answered by Twistedfirestarter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Find an old guy with lots of money, and ditch the boyfriend.
2007-01-19 04:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Is that a healthy environment to live in?
2007-01-19 04:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by Serendipity 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Good for you but none of them want you
2007-01-19 04:56:39 · answer #10 · answered by OMG 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋