There is this guy I like and he is really good mates with me!! My birthday was coming up so I invited him to my birthday and then he started text messaging me flirty text messages saying how he wants to get off with me and I was flirting back too!! On the day of my birthday we got off a lot and he kept feelin me up saying how I'm a good kisser and then he told all his mates that he got off with me, he did text me da next day and I also asked wat happened to his girl (just incase he did) and he told me that it is rocky at the moment but if things do work out I don't want you to feel that I used you I didn't, I do like you but its just complicated at the moment but then few days later he started to stop texting me, I don't understand what went wrong!! Please help me I don't know what to do!!!!
2007-01-18 20:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by Miss_Party_Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Getting off as in having sex?
2007-01-18 20:47:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys you're all being a bit rough with the girl!!
From what I've read you didn't realise he had a girl?? There are a few ways to look at it. One - He is a creep. Two - He is confused Three - It was just what it was ( 1 night)
You said you are god friends with him? Does he have a girl? Were they "on a break" at the time? He didn't have to say that he likes you & explain himself - In fact if he was a creep he just wouldn't bother with you at all.
I don't know what you should do just because I don't know you or him! If it was me and I felt that he used me I would make it my business to let him know he's not all that.
On the other hand if you really like him and he doesn't have a girl then back off him! be really cool with him - talk to him but don't be over friendly. If he texts you wait an hour or so before you text him back. Do not be flirty with him. Let him do the running it will drive him mad the fact that you are not running after him!!!!
Have fun with it - He did!
2007-01-19 05:49:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he used you for a fling. He has no intention on leaving his girl. And by telling his friends what he did only shows that he has no respect for you.
If you're looking for love then move on to another guy because he isnt it.
2007-01-19 04:52:03 · answer #3 · answered by Darktania 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature. Find some old guy with one foot in the grave and lots of money. Don't mistake lust for love.
2007-01-19 04:47:58 · answer #4 · answered by Clown Knows 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he was lonely and you was the closest thing to him, now hes cast you aside as tho it meant nothing, dont txt him, make him come crawling back, if he dont then you havent made yourself look keen or desperate, if he does then keep this in mind if he tries anything again.
good luck
2007-01-19 04:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by sweetness 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be it's time to look in yourself, if everything there is OK and you like it certain the problem is in that guy. try to think about something beautiful and look for someone more intelligent. good luck
2007-01-19 05:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cristina T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is in a relationship and he was just flirting with you. You have to try harder if you really want him.
2007-01-19 12:24:03 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a confused little boy, who can't decide who he wants.
2007-01-19 04:47:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of him he sounds like a user to me find yourself another guy who will treat you with respect you deserve it
2007-01-19 05:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by dee.jackson7@btinternet.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell his GF what you 2 did, and what he told ya, show her the textmeassages....
2007-01-19 05:18:54 · answer #10 · answered by toxisoft 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋