I have no reason to not trust my boyfriend but i always have this feeling that he is lying to me or cheating on me. Will i ever have trust?
2007-01-18 20:43:00 · 9 answers · asked by Brittany D 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only if he's willing to alter his lifestyle so that you're more relaxed. Something about him causes you to be uneasy. Your feelings may be true so dont knock yourself for being perceptive. Good Luck! :)
2007-01-18 20:46:30 · answer #1 · answered by Darktania 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have resolved the issues or reasons why your boyfreind was dishonest, start to build trust. If he is still in the same behavior as before take these steps ( I know all about, this is what I go through )
Search his pockets and night
Search the vehilcle, look for things out of the ordinary (extra cell, reciepts, fragrant smells.. etc)
Constantly accuse him, try catching him off guard.... like in front of a freind or brother... what the reactions of them when you accuse.........they really deep down would want him to get busted.
If he stays with you..........marry him...no one would put up with that unless they really loved you.
2007-01-19 14:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by Christian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not looking good if you're already feeling that way. Trust really is important to a healthy relationship in the future.
2007-01-19 04:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by ohare banana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him sometime...incognito...get your closest friend to go with you...and don't do anything stupid..! (They are NEVER worth it!!!)
But then...you might be pleasently suprised...he may be TELLING THE TRUTH!!!
Trust is always the most important element of a relationship, if you don't have it, you NEVER will...But, if you have it and lose it later from his cheating...it's time to QUIT him!
Infidelity is the worst kind of hurt........find a way to not carry this "baggage" from one relationship to the next or every one of them you are in from now on, probably won't ever last.
2007-01-19 04:59:55 · answer #4 · answered by stuckinarut_again 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don' t think. If you don't trust him and you will never trust him, leave him, it i the better things to do, a relationship is based on trusting each other...
2007-01-19 04:47:53 · answer #5 · answered by U.S. pride 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't trust him because of your bad experience. if not, then you watch his behaviour closely, and ask your friends to meet them. and see how they think. you can get a better observation from friends than yourself.
time can tell, and only time can heal too. if you find yoruself that you can't trust him, then leave him. if you can't leave him, then your only choice is to learn to build trust and love him regardless.
2007-01-19 04:48:04 · answer #6 · answered by Tracy But 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
galfrien no trust no success. if u hav trust within u , u will b at peace even if ur bfrien is playin hard to get.
2007-01-19 04:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u don't have any now when he hasn't done anything then u probably wont. n if he does lie or cheat on u imagine how u would feel??? just think about that!!
2007-01-19 04:47:38 · answer #8 · answered by stevieglenwright 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-01-19 04:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by les s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋