Im already in college, 2nd year. My aunt is the one who provides all my needs. But she stated some conditions and the wosrt is she said, no commitment or any acquintances with the opposite sex. It would be okey perhaps if only i don't have a boyfriend but the thing is i have one and i know it would be hard for me to quit or to call a break up with him, it would be unfair in his part. He was my childhood sweetheart since elementary, and i can't afford to lost him not this time. Right now we're not seeing anymore for almost a half year because he was studying in a far place. I know i love him but i can't say no to my aunt. She is a big help for my better future. What is the best thing im gonna do, or to choose? Can you help me on this?
2007-01-18 20:17:25 · 2 answers · asked by Jaz Beavan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, your aunt may have some good reasons for stating her conditions. Since she provides all your needs and you say that she is a great help for your better future, you have no choice but to accept her "conditions". Explain the situation to your bf. If he truly loves you, I'm sure he will understand.
2007-01-18 20:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True relationships don't hide and don't lie.
Get a job.
If this guy is the right one, then you will need to tell your aunt the truth. And the boyfriend should be willing to support you and marry you. Perhaps he is just stringing you along.
2007-01-19 04:23:20 · answer #2 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋