Is it advisable to marry a nagging,shameless woman?

Question

There is this lady am in relationship with,before i met her she was a virgin and i was the one who broke her virginity,ever since she's been a nagging woman.sometimes she holds my shirt on my neck in public not to talk about the numerous slaps that i receive from her.Sometime she attacks me to either kill her or to beat her.She attempted suicide 4 times in my room.Now she is threatening to kill herself if i refuse to marry her the reason being that i broke her virginity.Please advice me.

Answer 1

bring her a phyphlospyist or counsellor to get help.don't tell her no because it could tip her over the edge but go and see the counsellor find out whats the problem and work from there

Answer 2

No
She was involved in the decision to lose her virginity ( unless you raped her!) ... She obviously needs help but she is not your responsibility. Be firm, if you don't want to be with her , tell her firmly and calm;y. then leave. If possible make an arrangement to go away for a week or so, so she can't find you and you wont be sucked back into this destructive relationship.
be Strong. Good luck

Answer 3

OMG! i cant beleive u need 2 b told 2 ditch the bunny boiler,
if shes this badnow, what do u think it will b like in a year or 2?
even worse if u have kids with her!
run whileu can and find ur self a normal girl

Answer 4

this is no basis for a relationship.the very fact that you use the word"nagging"implies to me that the two of you are not communicating,your girlfriend has big issues and you must not accept pysical abuse from anyone,what must happen now is that she must get help..and the two of you must go and see "relate"..something must of happend to her as a child to react this way since she lost her virginity.Please do not marry until things are much ,much better..there is no common ground at the moment.There is a lot more to marridge than sex..a lot more.

Answer 5

you're a woman or a guy,despite u may be, yet u r confident that it replaced into no longer a love out of which u had those issues. It replaced into purely a lust & no longer something. while will u come out of such issues? attempt to desuade your self from going back & back interior an identical direction.stay and enable stay is the "superb" mantra of existence, shop on with it in all the concerns.i wish u understand that right this is not any Q in any respect of her being married or no longer.you're psychologically attempting to hold back the river of time.isn't it?

Answer 6

tell her she,s a silly cow and to grow up. Holding you responsible for her losing her virginity is bull as well. was she doing the ironing or on a bus when she lost it, it takes two to tango. Tell her that you DO have feelings for her then either stick it out and marry the nutter or RUNNNNNNNNNNNN

Answer 7

She is an absolute psycho mate. Move home, change fone number, vanish completely - or you will never be rid of her. Had a very similar experience myself. Someone losing their V to you doesnt entitle them to treat you like that. She sounds absoultely flipped!!! Get away from that one mate, honestly...

Answer 8

and your with this woman why?
get rid! go find somebody whos gonna treat you with a bit of respect
women threatening to kill themselves like that - is a threat, she is trying to scare you, when my ex boyfriend found out i was breaking up with him he said he would shoot himself (he was in the army at the time) did he? nope! so dont take idle threats like that its not fair on you, if you dont want to be with her or marry her then you dont have to! and if she has attempted suicide before, SHE NEEDS HELP!
Good luck

Answer 9

This woman needs some serious help. Direct her to a counselor or therapist. Do not pursue this relationship....you deserve much more than that.

Answer 10

This woman sounds like a complete phsyco!! Get away from her. I'm sure you know this already anyway - How can that be good for any one???