Yes we have talked and he has no contact with any of the people from his past. I am learning to take the advice givin me and trust him and not think he will hurt me like others have from my past. He has not done anything to loose my trust so I will trust him. Hard to do but he is worth giving a chance. And I am worth learning to be able to trust again.
2007-01-18 20:07:36 · 7 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It takes time to start trusting someone when you've been hurt just show him he can trust and tell him until you give him a reason not to trust you he should trust you and assure him you'd never hurt him.
Through time he will gain trust it just takes time sometimes.. Good luck! Just make sure you dont do anything else to make him lose the trust and you will be okay.
2007-01-18 20:11:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi Master brads angel!!
Good going!!! Give yourself that chance, I'm proud of you for that!!
I'm NOT there yet myself, but working on it!!
Listen concentrate better on feeling go, on yourself and what you want. If you concentrate to much in some one else chances are you are NOT going to please that person and you aren't going to be happy yourself.
By experience i let you know that if you are NOT happy with your self you can NOT help others to feel comfortable about you!! Even if they love you!! And that becomes a problem.
Take care of yourself and don't try to hard, just go with the flow. If he doesn't trust you, then is his problem it shouldn't be yours. Don't take responsibilities that don't correspond to you!!
If he doesn't change then it will be your decision, to live with a person that doesn't trust you, and forever try to convince him.
GOD BLESS YOU & GOOD LUCK
ALLIV Z
2007-01-19 04:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Alliv Z 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When least excpected ...you meet a marvellous guy...and you shouldn't loos him...just because you didn't trust someonei n the past.
My policy is this...first action, than trust....my point is when you start a relationship start it with trust...and you will have positive effects....even if he is not honest....you might have a chance to beat him with goodness...but if you mistrust him ....you will loose something precious in your life....an later regret for that.
Don't doubt....live!
2007-01-19 07:49:57 · answer #3 · answered by invisible1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your making it a bigger deal then it needs to be, if you have done nothing to lose his trust then he need to chill. He should understand why you want to be ther for your friend and his daughter. I do think that he has somehwat of a controlling side to him that is leaking out slowly especially if ya'll have only been together for 2 months. Best of luck
2007-01-19 04:15:28 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
first.. i must querry your post name 'master brads angel'.
Girl get your self together, breathe, and please this is not a trust issue with him as much as it is with you. if you have a valid reason to dis trust him then why are you still with him?by the looks of your "name" , it seems you enjoy being his door mat. i have a door mat, it says "welcome, please wipe your feet" , no where does it say "please tread on me"..
learning to trust is a fundemental emotion learned from the earliest stage of life. if you missed the brass ring, try again, with out the drama king.
2007-01-19 04:27:27 · answer #5 · answered by ifishthereforiam 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but I am honest, I am unsure of how it went from him not trusting you to you not trusting him but I will say this: Just keep lying to yourself and it will all work itself out over time.
-NmD!
2007-01-19 04:12:39 · answer #6 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Don't be a slutter.
2007-01-19 04:12:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋