My ex fiance spent a night over his daughter's moms house? I feel that was disrepectful to our relationship. He told me he slept on the couch. However this is the 1rst woman he has ever made love to. She still lives in the same apartment they lived in when they where together. Not to mention his daughter is 17 years old. Don't you think it's uneccessary for him to spend the entire night over his ex' house. Even though they have a 17 year old daughter together. He feel that it's harmless I feel differently. He say's I just dont want him to see his daughter which is not true. I just feel he should see her in a more respectful setting. One that doesn't involve him spending a night.
2007-01-18 20:02:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, he didn't dump me smart ***. I dumped him this is the reason why he is my ex because of his sleepover visits.
2007-01-19 06:46:50 · update #1
He's your EX....So whats your problem here???
2007-01-18 20:06:19 · answer #1 · answered by Curious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the telltale sign: when you approach(ed) him about it, did he even listen? Did he acknowledge that you were uncomfortable and agree not to do it again? Bottom line, did he respect your feelings? If he completely brushed it off, ignored you, or worse yet, tried to turn it around and make it YOUR problem? Rethink him. The worst thing a person can do in a relationship is not respect their parter in what seems like "little" ways, but if he can't at the very least acknowledge your feelings, that's close to a deal breaker.
You mention he is your ex fiance... were you guys engaged and broke it off but decided to stay together? That says something in itself. I'm not trying to be overly negative, but the whole situation sounds questionable, or it could be harmless. It's one of those times that you have to look between the lines.
2007-01-19 04:12:02 · answer #2 · answered by Hedera Naturale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is still in love with his daughter's Mom. And you have got to be kidding me if you believe him about the couch situation!
Thank God he's your EX fiance.
2007-01-19 04:07:47 · answer #3 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right, him seeing his daughter has nothing to do with staying the night. If she is 17 why would he have to stay the night when she has school in the morning. Theres more to that story tan what he is telling you. In a situation like that stick with your womans intuition and do what or feel what your gut is telling you to do.
2007-01-19 04:07:18 · answer #4 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jeez, you're paranoid, insecure and childish!!!
What is wrong with him staying over??? Obviously they are still on good terms and if he wants to see his daughter in a more comfortable surrounding, then you should try acting more like a grown up... I see that you say EX-fiance... I hope he dumped you... :D
2007-01-19 04:09:00 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your concern is justified. Such things has to be done the decent way, as in meeting up at public places and stuff..
2007-01-19 04:08:50 · answer #6 · answered by th1608 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see a problem since he is your ex fiance.
2007-01-19 04:07:58 · answer #7 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is your ex...I understand how you have certain feelings about this, but not your place to sit there and judge or worry about since he is no longer yours!
2007-01-19 04:09:54 · answer #8 · answered by Dayout6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're absolutly right. I see a red flag!! Keep your eye on this one girl. Or, better yet, move on...
2007-01-19 04:09:15 · answer #9 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋