by nature, I am very open person. I accept friends from all types with no histant. But some time u meet some people who whatever u say to them, they stand as a steel refusing to melt. u can keep talking for an hour but he/she will never open to his true personality... any advice to crack those kind of people code.
2007-01-18 19:39:54 · 9 answers · asked by Joseph B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let them be. Don't be too pushy. You can't force someone to talk or to even like you if they don't want to. Since you have an easy time making friends, just continue to be a nice, open, accepting person. It seems you are outgoing and caring at the same time. If they aren't going to open up, that's OK. Continue to say "hello", maybe soon they'll warm up.
2007-01-18 19:48:38 · answer #1 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a, what you see is what you get kind of person. I look at a person for who they are inside.
It's hard to become friends with a phony or one who is hiding something, or hiding within there self.
All you can do is to befriend them and just maybe, in time, they will reveal their true self.
If they do open up to you, you may not like who they are. Use your instinct when in doubt.
2007-01-19 03:57:06 · answer #2 · answered by DeeJay 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May be u are approaching to his / her in a rigth way,it seems u got lot of doubts weather to know him/her personality, u are not sure to build a relationship i think.
The conversation should be always like should continue, if a person talks to u once means he/she should be eager to talk to u again and again, the conversatin should never end like, the opposite person should feel fear to call u and talk to u.
2007-01-19 03:48:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth , honesty, and most importantly you must let them open up when they are ready, not you.
Are you doing this for them or for yourself?
They will only open themselves to you if they believe you to be a true friend, not just someone who talks a lot.
2007-01-19 03:46:04 · answer #4 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you cut through the ribcage with a bone saw you can then open thier heart with a scapel.
2007-01-19 03:43:30 · answer #5 · answered by alias_dictus_tony 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh lemme just copy and paste what you just said read it and reflect upon it and just feel free to realize how stupid it sounds
-"u can keep talking for an hour but he/she will never open to his true personality..."
2007-01-19 03:44:36 · answer #6 · answered by joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to make them happy and if you wanna , you can talk sweet to open up others heart
2007-01-19 03:47:35 · answer #7 · answered by jessi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
build trust...so many people messed with me...i would say i'd be a little more wary...they were nice to me in the beginning too..just show that you will come through....
2007-01-19 03:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by Wht Hare 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to them
2007-01-19 03:42:53 · answer #9 · answered by princessshly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋