We do talk very thourouly. I think everyone at some point and time has had problems with trust. I know I have and someone gave me good advice on how I can trust him since it is hard to trust anyone due to abuse issues. He is nothing like a abusive person or controlling. He just wants to talk through everything and get to know me and I am ok with that. The advice I was given was he is not those guys so I should trust him without thinking he will be or do what others have done. Otherwise I am not being fair to him or myself. I am not looking for negitive answers, I am looking for answers from people that really want their relationships to work out and are or have worked on this issue. He tells me everyday how beautiful I am and that he loves my smile. He stands up to me and is very protective of me. So please possitive replies only. Thank you.
2007-01-18 19:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by lost angel 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Show first you trust him
2007-01-18 19:31:58 · answer #1 · answered by civilestimator 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You've been with him for 2 months, he's all in your business and telling you what to do and who to talk to. This ain't love sugarpie; it's CONTROL. He's insecure and so are you. 2 months and you think you're in love but you're stuck on stupid.
I'm not attacking you, but you need so much advice because you can't make the decisions for yourself and you don't see the big picture.
it's ok to have a boyfriend, but he's not supposed to be telling you what to do any more than you have the right to tell him what to do. How many females has he f-----d? Does he still talk to them? Does he still have them on his cell speed dial or in his email list? DID YOU ASK???
He is CONTROLLING. Wake up, honey. Two months is not enough and this guy already has you changing what you do. DON'T SAY I DIDN'T WARN YOU.
Good luck.
2007-01-19 03:38:17 · answer #2 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if he's like that, then he should have no problem with your
friend that has a sick daughter. Many people can sympathize with
that.
Like I said before, just assure him that that guy friend you want to
help is nothing more or less than JUST a friend. After he finishes
his ordeal, you will remain no more or less than JUST a friend
with him.
2007-01-19 03:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Jean 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And he is also controlling when you cannot have men on your friends list without being questioned and pressured into removing them. He has issues thats all and yeah he is controlling and it will get worse if you allow it to happen. Have you gave him any reason not to trust you? If not then you two need to talk it out cause he is insecure.
-NmD!
2007-01-19 03:31:57 · answer #4 · answered by NoMaD! 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋