we met each other a a job 2 years ago when we both lived in the same city. i thought he was cool as hell right away, i have no idea what he thought. some of our friends have always thought something is/was going on with us. when he lived here he asked my friend if i liked him, friend said he didn't know. he calls me at 4-6 am pretty frequently. we do also talk at normal hours too. and i call him, sometimes we are both drunk, sober, or one of each. well he finally decided 2 years later to move back here, that was yesterday. i havent seen him yet. he always says he cant wait to see me, how awesome it will be and he would love me to call him back etc. thing is i really think i like this guy, have since he when he first lived here, he in the past has made jokes asking for bj's and asked me to come home with him last time he lived here. so does this dude like me? was he setting a booty call up from 1500 miles away? what's the deal? i'm leaving so many details out, thanks for the help
2007-01-18 17:30:19 · 4 answers · asked by telaforbin 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be forthcoming with your feelings. But ALWAYS leave the door open for maintaining a friendship. If you want more, tell him. If he has been hinting at it, he is probably feeling the same way. He just doesn't know how to express it. I don't know your ages, but it's probably just a case of maturity. You will be able to express yourself more eloquently than he. But don't sweat the small stuff. Go for broke! If you want it, go for it! The worst that can happen is he will tell you he only wants to be friends. Is being friends really such a bad thing? In my opinion, either way is a win-win situation. He wants to hook up - definitely a win. He wants to maintain a friendship - absolutely a win, because TRUE friendships are hard to come by.
Good luck with whatever you decide to do!
2007-01-18 17:43:18 · answer #1 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you. I doubt he'd go to so much trouble if you were just a booty call to him. Talk to him, but I suggest you try to make sure you're both sober. Tell him howyou feel about him. Ask him what's next, in his mind, for the 2 of you.
2007-01-18 17:38:29 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just with the fact that you say you are leaving so many details out...
when you get back to town lay it on the line. ask him to define what exactly he is looking for with you....if it isn't what you want...don't answer the phone at 5 am anymore....
2007-01-18 17:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by allrightythen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is what it is and thats just a booty call
2007-01-18 17:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by sexymumma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋