why does she hate me?

Question

actually everyone has told me to move out cuz of my psycho mother inlaw but he wont leave his mom and if i leaveshe will be the happest person alive and i hate her way too much to make her happy after all the torture shes put me through mentally and personally. the only torture she has from me is my beging around her son so if i leave him shes getting what she planned. see she has to work for her to torture me but all i have to do is be there and she goes psycho. i love my husband i wont leave him cause of her but....does anyone know why shes doing this man!!!!!!!!!!!! what did i do im mad quiet and shy i dont argue even while she insults me only cus she will add lies to what i say so i never know how to handle the situation. why does she lie to him about things i never do just to see us fight and stop speaking then she gets so happy she freaken dances and sings out loud when she sees we're speaking she daily sits him down and tells him crap lies about s&& i never have done to piss him

Answer 1

Hang on a sec....he wont leave his mom ? you have to live with her ??? ok,well its just the whole mother in law thing here,shes jealous that her precious boy has found someone else to love. you need to sort your husband out and tell him its not natural to be living with his mum too !

Answer 2

it's because every mother doesnt think any woman is good enough for her soon. she may also be afraid your going to take him away from her and is making up this stuff to keep him close and seperate the two of you. the thing is do you really want to live like this for the rest of your life. if he loves you he will leave with you. your right not to argue back because if he is a mammy's boy he will take her side. you should discuss your feelings with your husband. the thing is you never should move in with the inlaws and the best thing for you to do now is put down your foot and tell him you want to move with or without him. dont let this go on you should be happy. other option is to sit down and talk with your mother in law actually try that first if it doesnt work talk it over with your husband

Answer 3

This is a life problem.
But I am a young lady and I will marry some day.
I have 2 brothers and a sister. My brothers are married and have 3 kids (not 3 years old yet).
They are not gifts but in comparison with thier wives they are so damnly precious. This is a class question.
Educaton ,parents, job, all these matter.
Your mother in law is a witch. Personally, you have intuition. What would your husband choose. If you feel her, then gradually discredit her by spoiling her reputation.
cry, cry and cry in front of your husband. Complain that you really love him but you can't take his mother any more because...
never quarrel with her in front of his eyes and always say in a low but confident voice.
Know her weak points. Surely she has.
Ask your men to rent a separate apartment for you.
Don't have sexual relations under excuse of some anger or other fault of his. He will not go to his mother, right. He should cope with it himself ignoring his mother at this case. In bed, tell him calmly what you want.

Answer 4

My ex-mother in-law was very similar.. except we didn't live with her.. but it didn't stop her trying to break me and her son up..

At our wedding she said to people that she would give us six months and we would be divorced.. we were still married over 20 years later, in the end we did split up but not because of her.

Your husband must know what his mom is like and you must give him an untimatum.. If he loves you he needs to agree to move himself and you out of her house and find a place of your own..

He doesn't have to go too far from her and if he loves her that much he can go visit her for a short while daily.. If you stay nice and allow him his little fix of his mother then she may (said tentatively) come around.. My ex-mother in-law did.. she gave up in the end..

You have to talk to him.. let him know your serious about moving out and tell him you need some time with him alone.. most of all tell him it's time to grow up and let go of his mommy's apron strings.

If he won't move out with you.. for love.. he may not be worth staying with. Your mental health is at risk.

Answer 5

Go psycho on her old asss! Is he her only son?What happened to his dad?If she hasn't had a man in her life, she thinks your husband is the man of the house.Tell him to get some balls and tell his mother not to disrespect you.I would do mean things to his mom then say she's losing her mind!Put laxatives in her food or something!! Hide her medication!

Answer 6

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Answer 7

Ah...psycho mother in laws...tell me about it! Mine was, and I say was, becoz she is D E A D now, hell-bent in making my marriage to his precious son fail. But it didn't, coz I stood my ground, and told her to go to H E L L (and gez my wish came true, heh heh!). But I had it easier than u, she wasn't staying wid us. In ur case, my advice would be, to not let her bully u around. Be vocal when she behaves badly, or say nasty things to you or about u, especially in front of ur man. And by the way, how is HE reacting to all this crap from her? Hope he's on ur side, coz if he ain't, u kick his a*s right after u kick "mother dearest"!

Answer 8

because he is her little baby and u re her competitor. u re an outsider. and as a mother of boys i can tell u i don't like girls. so if your mother in law never had daughters she doesn't like girls. u can not do anything in this situation, she will always hate u. probably she thinks her son could do better. but keep in mind - whatever u do she will never love u. never

Answer 9

i think we must av the same mother in law!!!!mine is exactly the same.dont move out make her suffer youll be the one losing out if you do.i think mine feels Superior to me for some reason and she doesn't like the fact that Ive taken her precious son from her

Answer 10

there is obviously a problem with his mom and he know about it, so i suggest that you get the counselling as the only one that can change is you and then you will be given choices and options. and perhaps way to deal with this woman