Iam not able to talk 2 even my friends properly cuz dis thought is plauging me inside out...i fell like i dont have anything to bank on,be it looks or talents or intelligence etc...i feel like a loser and because of this im not able to trust anyone entirely .im not actually the kind of guy who bothers about being in a relationship but i want a reassurance that i can...my confidence level is currently hitting on zero....but i wanna achieve smething great in life,truly i dont want to remain a nobody forever and wish to carve my own identity....plz someone,help me
2007-01-18 16:51:22 · 7 answers · asked by Heya 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
find something you love doing. you are a human being, and all human beings have a purpose on this earth. experiment with something. join a choir. take up surfing. learn how to play the drums or the guitar.
building up confidence starts with baby steps. playing the drums might be difficult at first, but once you get the hang of it you feel like you finally acomplished something.
don't just sit there and whine about you feeling low! get out there and find what you're passionate about, or else you'll be like how you are forever! you CAN DO IT!!!
nobody can help you but yourself. i was just like you once. i got sick of following, and i started making my own identity. i learned how to play guitar on my own. i started surfing on my own. and you know what? i started feeling better about myself. i didn't just sit there and marinade in my own self pitty. i did something about it and thats what you need to do.
build your confidence by replacing "i can't" with "I CAN!" e
eliminate all negativity in your thoughts and your vocabulary and replace it with POSITIVITY!
you don't like the way you look? change the way you carry yourself. maybe you need some new clothes? a shave? whatever it is, just change the way you are now if you're not happy with yourself. don't let anyone tell you that you can't, because you CAN.
2007-01-18 17:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bodhi721 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know, everyone feels that way at some point in their life. and you shouldn't negatively say that you feel that way because it'll only just lower your self-esteem. your self concious is what is bothering you, i have a friend just like that which is why its hard for her to make new friends. BUT, you can work on it. its not too late to change how you are right now. and personality is what everyone loves. if you have a great personality, then you'll be on the roll. and you have an identity. your just lost right now, you'll have to find yourself again. and be strong and think positive (:
2007-01-18 17:15:07 · answer #2 · answered by marisssssssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a make over or something change the way you dress get a new hair cut that might work oh and ask a real close female friend with great style to help you
2007-01-18 16:55:38 · answer #3 · answered by Waythere 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont do something big at once, do something small instead with the aim of something big. Start with your hairstyle, then the rest of the appearance. Do something small 1st, and get small appreciation, slowly but sure you'll get your confidence level up.
2007-01-18 17:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Alastair 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no you are not, coz everything God created are good and perfect. all u need is courage and faith like that of the mustard seed.these
element are in u just discover them by loving everything comes across u.
2007-01-18 17:06:40 · answer #5 · answered by olawale michael 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get a gym membership
2007-01-18 16:56:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too.
2007-01-18 17:00:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋