i just asked a question bout hugging my boyfriend..well i realy like him .. and i just recently broke up with one of the best boyfriends 2 months ago anf well none of my friends think im over him...i think im over him but i always talk about how nice he was to me and evrything! should i let him know i stilll have feelings for him..or will it cause to much between my boyfriend and me....I really like my boyfriend... but I still really like my ex..what do i do?
2007-01-18 16:41:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can still treasure the good times you've had with your ex. But allow it to be just that - something that YOU treasure. Once you enter into a new relationship, don't allow your former relationships to invade (for lack of a better word) what you're attempting to create with the current person. I'm pretty sure your new boyfriend doesn't want to ALWAYS (that's the word you used) hear about how nice your ex was to you. The obvious question from him would be: "If he was so great, why aren't you still with him?" He is an ex for a reason. Take the best lessons from every experience you have and create wonderful, new experiences with your new relationships. Let the past be just that - the PAST.
Good luck with your new beau!
2007-01-18 17:06:43 · answer #1 · answered by feefee2u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly you need to ask yourself this: are you willing to lose your current boyfriend to be accepted or even rejected by your ex. Once you have that answer then you can go on. Your current
boyfriend does not deseve to b your second best choic4, so give him your all or let him go. Just like you don't deserve to be inlove with someone who doesn't know. Don't let your friends influence your decision.
2007-01-19 00:48:48 · answer #2 · answered by yarisgp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BE single girl enjoy the freedoms of being single and live a little life is too short to be tied between any one specific person at a younger age but hey good luck hope all works out.
2007-01-19 00:46:56 · answer #3 · answered by shawn w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...don't. It will make it awkward between everyone involved. The best thing to do is to just left your old boyfriend go. I know it seems hard or whatever...but it's honestly better if you just move on and don't dwell on what was...and most likely won't ever be again. Focus on what your new boyfriend does give you.
2007-01-19 00:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by K8tgry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you broke up with one of your best boy friends...that was nice to you. My question to you is WHY. Did you have a valid reason. If so...move on and forget about him. If you broke up with him without a valid reason and still like him...maybe you should rethink your new relationship. Either way...dont tell the guy you like someone else..thats just cruel!!!
2007-01-19 00:50:02 · answer #5 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you already know the answer. But just pray on it, God will lead you in the right direction. He cares about things like this too. He would love it if we went to Him for EVERYTHING. Because He is God (all-knowing).
2007-01-19 00:47:04 · answer #6 · answered by Gena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you have to reallly look at this for what it is, you still
have feeling for someone else, and that may be why you are
questions what going on with the current boyfriend,. i would tell
him the truth and go for there, it sound lke you need to be by your
self to deal with this, other wise you will hurt him and yourself.
2007-01-19 00:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make up your mind. Maybe you're not mature enough yet to even have a boyfriend.
2007-01-19 00:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by mamabear 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to follow your hart and do what you think is write. You are going to be kissing a person that you reaky dont love. think about it.
2007-01-19 00:47:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been the same situation like you before...choose the one u really love not just because u like them..sumone who cares for you,concern about you and always be there for u...if u cheat your bf,u will lost both of them...
2007-01-19 00:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Miz Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋