what to do if your child really gets too naughty?

Answer 1

personally, i take their stuff as punishment, for a period of time. depends upon the offense and it seems to work for most kids (they HATE their stuff being taken away). anything important, will do.

for instance, if my child refuses to wear his/her bike helmet while riding the bike, i get out my tools... take off the front tire of bike and lock it in my trunk for a day. if they gave me hard time again, i locked it up for two days... and so on.

works like a charm.

mother of 4

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Answer 2

There isn't much explanation as to what you mean but if you have a child that is very naughty then you have to deal with it! You are the parent and there is no one to blame but the parents.
Chidren do not ask to be here in this world but when they do, you are responsible for the person you want them to be. If you want a well behaved child you must make sure they know right from wrong, teach them what is acceptable in your home, in public places and in today's society. They need structure, rules and discipline so be tough on all these areas and your child will start to behave within the limits you have given them.
The worst thing you can do with a problem child is give up on them. They are acting out for your attention and they need to be helped with how to deal with their emotions, stress and other situations that they can not phathom. Don't give up.

Answer 3

I never put up with this kind of abuse from a child.
Remember you are the parent and its ok to have control over your children.
To often you see children go wild in the public and you wonder what they must be like in private.
Just watch the TV show Nanny and it will give you some insight on what a professional does.
You are so much wanting to be a loving parent that you overlook the first rule. The children must respect you before they can love you. If you spare the rod you will spoil the child.

Answer 4

It just doesn't happen. Avoid day care, nurse on demand, be loving, responsive, and attentive, be clear on your expectations, have few rules but stick to them, and make your consequences make sense so the child learns self-discipline. I've been raising two boys for 14 years and neither has ever been 'too naughty.'

Answer 5

Depends on how naughty your talking....let them know that they are doing the wrong thing (don't tell them THEY are naughty but that they are DOING naughty things) also tell them that it makes you sad when they do the wrong thing and give heaps of praise for 'good' behavior and try to ignore (to a certain degree) 'naughty' behavior.
I hope this helps.

Answer 6

try to have rules for your child and make sure you will stick to it.talk to her and explain what she did is wrong and when she said sorry asked her why she said sorry.
Or have a time out place, like a chair in a corner or just a corner. put her there if she is naughty.I know she will resist but you still have to hold her there and tell her that she is not going anywhere unless she behave.You have to tell her that she needs to say sorry for what she have done and you have to ask her why she needs to say sorry. In that way,she will know that once you put her in the naughty corner she made a mistake.

Answer 7

Children have to known that you mean what you say but still love them.If you tell them you are gone to do something then do it.let them know you mean business.In what every way you correct them.Don't be the kind of parent that puts off punishment until later or when dad get home.address the issue at once.Also hand the praise when they do good.Be sure they know that you love and why they are being punished.

Answer 8

Visit Dr Phil's website. This has great information on raising kids.

Answer 9

spare the rod spoil the child. Not such a bad idea.

Answer 10

I don't joke around when kids get out-of-hand! I will start yelling or hit them on the hand, or tell them to go to bed early.