I basically pushed her away, but now i realize how stupid and inmature i was. The only thing in the world i want is her, she is my life. How can i get her back? We talk almost everyday like friends and it's killing me. Should i just ignore her for a while and give her space. I don't know what to do. I just want her back more than anything in the world!! A women's advice would really be helpful on this one. Please help if you can!!!
2007-01-18 16:29:33 · 21 answers · asked by spankerson12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you two still talk, I'd say your chances are pretty good at getting her back. Sit down and have an honest conversation with her about what you did wrong and what you plan to change about it. If she doesn't want to talk about it, don't push her. Give her time and bring it up later when she's open to hearing what you have to say. In the meantime, continue to be her friend and don't pressure her about getting back together. That will push her away and you don't want that.
2007-01-18 16:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring her would be the absolute WRONG thing to do.
Try talking to her... say this: "I basically pushed you away, but now i realize how stupid and immature i was. The only thing in the world i want is you, you are my life. How can i get you back? We talked almost everyday like friends and it's killing me not doing that anymore. I don't know what to do. I just want you back more than anything in the world!!"
I hope you noticed that's just your own words coming back, with a few adjustments. :) Tell her the truth, from your heart... she'll know you're sincere. Best of luck!
2007-01-19 00:39:18 · answer #2 · answered by Debbie B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You basically have to start from step 1. Court her again, or probably just be friends for a while. In that case if she still has bitterness on what you've done, it will just fade away if she sees you have changed. Show her that you are really sorry for what you've done before. Treat her so nice, so she'll realize that you still love her. Don't talk to her straight that you want her back, you never know if she still likes you to be her boyfriend or maybe she just wants the both of you to be friends. Let time pass first, make her feel so special, and soon you can ask her back. With your sincerity and sweetness that she had seen, she wont refuse.
2007-01-19 00:42:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually, i don't think you deserve her. sorry but i don't think this is the answer you had wanted to hear.
she deserves someone better, and if you really love her, just don't bother with her anymore. do you know how much confusion and more heartache you're doing to her now? she might just be posting a question here too. asking "my bf wanted me away, and now he wants me back, what should i do?" crap.
try to think back and reflect on why you didn't want her in the first place. could these reasons come around again sometime into your relationship with her?
do you really see a future between the two of you in the long run? if you only want her for the time being, then i don't think you should even want to have her back anymore.
girls deserve to be treated better than that..
2007-01-19 00:38:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still keep in contact and that is good. You may want to talk to her about how you feel and about how sorry you are about the way things ended up. I would definitely not ignore her. See how she feels, and if she needs some space tell her you will give it to her. If you do get her back, be sure not to smother her, but also make it clear that you will not take her for granted again.
2007-01-19 00:38:16 · answer #5 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her everything that you did wrong. Tell her that you made a mistake in letting her go. Tell her everything that you feel for her. Court her again and be patient because she might not give in easily this time. Do everything romantic that you can think of and don't let her push you away. If you stay no matter what she do, she could prove to herself how much you love her. But this time, be good.
2007-01-19 00:42:29 · answer #6 · answered by gelize 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say the truth. Tell her how u fell, say sorri, nothing is more powerful. Ask for her opinion often to make her feel lyk she has a big say in wats happening even if she doesnt it means a lot. I thik dat should work . Best of luck
2007-01-19 00:37:00 · answer #7 · answered by sweetxxbitter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would jsut give her the space right now, and then down the road
you can talk to her about how you feel and that you want her
back, she may see you in the light if you just take the time to
deal with what going on, your actions will speak a lot louder then
anything that you say.
2007-01-19 00:36:38 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure that you dont just want her because you got rid of her and think you cant have her? would you really want her if you had her? if so then stop acting so much like you want her. I think people want what they cant have. OR maybe you should just talk to her. have you told her what a big mistake you have made? tell her and if that doesnt work try the other, acting like you dont want her. one thing for sure is ... if its meant to happen then it will. let it be.
2007-01-19 00:38:29 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she's 'your world', then why did you push her away?
Just apologize for being stupid and beg for her forgiveness. Taking her out to dinner and giving her flowers won't hurt either!
2007-01-19 00:34:32 · answer #10 · answered by ANSWER MY QUESTION!! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋