the one for me. Tonight he sent me a pretty offensive nasty crude adult cartoon of lil red riding hood. It was pretty degrading to women and I don't know it just pissed me off. Would you be mad too? I pretty much emailed back "classy, plz dont send me crap like that again." Do you think I have the right to be upset? I just couldn't figure out why he sent it to me in the first place. Thanks for your input.
2007-01-18 15:54:14 · 12 answers · asked by ooolala 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thank heaven you found out before getting more seriously involved with him. that is why people date, to find out more about each other and see if they compliment one another......
it does not matter if you have the right or not to be offended. the fact is you were offended and so that is what matters....now, you can make the decision to continue dating him or slowly and gently slip out of his life and remain just friends if you want to.
2007-01-18 16:29:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You definately have the right to be upset and if he didn't know that this would be offensive to you then he is not the right one for you. Good stuff and keep stepping!
2007-01-18 23:58:49 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did he send it from his work address? I would have forwarded it to the company e-mail--not really, but I would have been mad.
I would have thought he was trying to tell me what he expected out of me as a woman.
2007-01-19 00:01:21 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would have prob been a little mad too. but dont let it bother u too much we all know guys are messed up and they never actually think about something before they do it, they just do!
2007-01-18 23:58:22 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_brownie526 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes suggesting a Halloween costume maybe. But he was probably just jokin.
2007-01-18 23:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you.
Obviously, he doesn't know how to treat a lady.
I'm proud of you for saying something... to many "girls" laugh stuff like that off just to be liked and thought "cool".
2007-01-18 23:56:37 · answer #6 · answered by my-kids-mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be mad!! you did the right thing... i might have said a few more words... this is why he is not the right guy for you, he just needed to show you why.
2007-01-19 00:03:51 · answer #7 · answered by sunshine 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do have the right to be mad but don't get nuts about it
2007-01-19 00:00:11 · answer #8 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably dats his way of makin u happy. If u don't like it than to hell with it.
2007-01-18 23:57:54 · answer #9 · answered by rex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now that ypu've told him, he should respect your request...but, since he didn;t know that it offended you, he probably didn't mean anything bad by it ;)
2007-01-18 23:58:19 · answer #10 · answered by Its Y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋