I am dating someone that says he does not want to come over and spend the night because he says he hates my family and that they are crazy. When we go out on dates I pay for EVERYTHING. He does not call me in the mornings I have to call him. What does this mean please help!
2007-01-18 15:40:41 · 9 answers · asked by unknown 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It means he is using you hun. Relationships are a two-way street and you are doing everything to please him yet getting nothing in return. If your family hates him..trust them there is a reason so just get out of this dead end relationship asap.Face it.. you're just his booty call not his not his girlfrind cause if he treats you this way now How is he gonna treat you oncve you're married nad have his kids.
GET OUT !!!!
2007-01-18 15:56:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This means you have some serious problems with your man! First of all, to give him some credit, if you live with your family (parents?) it may not seem appropriate for him to stay. Think--would you feel funny waking up with someone's parents there? I don't fault him for not staying if there is a deeper reason, but it is immature for him to say he "hates" your family. And I think he is immature. He needs to get a job if he doesn't have one so he can pay for things, and if he does, realize that he should meet you halfway, if not more. Also, always remember this "men don't forget how much they like a woman. so put down the phone." you shouldn't be doing all the calling. this means that you need to have a serious talk with him that if things don't change, it's over. give him time--if he is inexperienced, he can't do it all at once. give him a chance, and if it doesn't get better, you can do better. but don't force him to stay with you if you live at home. i'd be creeped out, too.
2007-01-18 23:46:25 · answer #2 · answered by goodgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you with that guy?
your family reflects you and your family would accet you no matter what, if this guy you are talking about can say nasty things to your family you are nuts to let him do that, that guy does not really love you if he did he would respect your family eventhough he does not like them, and when you go out for dates it should be sharing with one another, if youre always the one paying? where is the logic in there, sometimes he also has to pay. and he does not call you, you are the victim here, he does not see you as somebody worth his time, you deserve a better man, you are crazy if you still want this guy,youre a masochist , stop hurting yourself, someone out there would love you better and treat you and your family better, as for my case any man who would say that my family is crazy is not worth it!
2007-01-18 23:52:47 · answer #3 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a one sided relationship with you doing all the work next time you go out tell him you forgot your purse and he has to pay as for the family thing they probly are crazy no offence (your just immune to it) ( hey I openly admit my family is insane) and the phone calls don't do it wait for him just hold back a bit and see how everything goes it might be hard at first but you will get thru it
2007-01-18 23:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by Missty Rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
it means hes a freeloader. IT means that hes gotten comfortable and thinks that he has gotten you and doesn't need to do anything else. insulting your family gives him a reason to not go over to your place to hang with you. stop paying for everything stop everything make him do that or tell him that you need to find someone who will appreciate you
2007-01-18 23:49:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To put it bluntly he is using you and does not have the decency to tell you the truth.
He will continue making excuses and letting you pay for everything as long as you let him.
Move on, you deserve better.
2007-01-18 23:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by L&C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he's hanging out with you because you're "there" and you'll pay for everything. You need to drop this guy - he's not worthy of you.
2007-01-18 23:47:28 · answer #7 · answered by karespromise 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are still with him why, you need to find a new boyfriend this
one sound like he does not want to be with you, and why are
you paying for everything. a realtionship about 2 people not
one.he sound like he not the one for you. he show no respect
for you your family.
2007-01-18 23:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he does not care about u dont let him hit it
2007-01-18 23:49:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋