i don't understand why men go through so much just to get laid. come on! don't your minds go farther than that? sex shouldn't be so important, because its only a physical activity that really doesn't require much thought. i hate it whenever i meet a guy, whether i like him or not, he always wants to f(uck me and harass me about giving it to him......it's disgusting! GROW UP!!!! I'm a decent person with a lot to offer, and tremendous goals in life that I'm working toward achieving, so it can't be because I'm too stupid or not about anything. So my question is, are ALL you guys just all about sex? what else do you care about....and don't say sports!
2007-01-18 15:38:59 · 39 answers · asked by Yvette S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u know what face it you are a piece of meat, for a guy it gets pretty frustrating to hear these same comments, is that all we think about
u seem like u will always be single so enjoy that life as a nun
go rams
2007-01-18 15:42:09 · answer #1 · answered by wolfchat_2005 3 · 3⤊ 5⤋
Not all men think that way, some do have good morals and respect for a woman who first respects herself. You can't get around the fact that men think about sex way more than women do,every 7.8 seconds of the day and night. I might think about it that much too but, acting on it is different. Now I can't have casual sex with a woman unless I feel that I can have a future with her or my actions won't bring about negative consequences between us. When you think about all the DNA you are swapping, the time and energy spent, the emotional attachment,the risk of STD,AIDS,etc. or the possibility of a child
being conceived, you would probably think twice before sleeping with someone but hey, who's thinking that when the hormones kick in and the body wants it more than than the heart does? Not many! The heart pumps the blood straight to a man's penis not leaving much for the brain to make rational thoughts. It has been said that,"when a woman grabs a man by the head, his hands and feet will follow"!
Not all men will let you near their heads unless they truly know the "real" you, ladies. There are those who believe it is their God given right to conquer as many women as they can while still the blood pumps to their penis! Sorry, just a fact. I hope I answer your question. No head locks, please!
2007-01-18 16:00:07 · answer #2 · answered by saturn man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girl all men think with just one thing there head and I don't mean the one on there necks. Maybe it's your hang out spots or maybe it's the way you present yourself. the problem is regardless if you meet a man or boy always remember that you are a lady and you don't have do nothing you don't want to. Always respect your self if you don't noone else will. Always put yourself on a pedistal and the way you carry yourself is when you will meet the man of your dreams. It may or may not take a while but trust me when you meet him you will know. Don't mistake love for lust or infatuation you always end up hurt in the long run. Get to know a person first before making a life changing decision. Love and Respect yourself and you will receive it back in return.
2007-01-18 15:51:12 · answer #3 · answered by doodie315 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
......hm not ALL guys. I'm 23 and still a virgin...and my gf is a virgin too.
I honestly don't know when we are finally going to have sex, but I honestly am not in a rush at all.
I have an education to complete and a steady job to uphold before moving onto any of that. I'm going to graduate college soon and the last thing I need IS sex.
Life IS stressful, but sex just doesn't cut it for me. There are other ways to fulfill stress relief...other than moving from girl to girl in bed, in my opinion at least.
...hmmm. That's all I can say really. Being a virgin, and all...
....I guess the guys that are like that don't have any solid commitments in life or are just looking to take the easy way out of solving the riddle of overcoming stress life has to offer?
LHHRS
~{K.A.M.}~
Kevyn @-)---------
2007-01-18 15:48:47 · answer #4 · answered by kam_fl.kevyn06 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So first of all, you're raging against billions of years of evolution, which is a battle no human is going to win.
Second of all, the whole absolutism trap is very easy to fall into when you're feeling down, (guys often say all girls just want money, many do want just money, not all). The problem is though that if a guy wants to talk about anything but sports or sex or autos he's usually considered effeminate, boring, or weird.
Ask yourself what you would you do if a guy tried to discuss the implications of Nietzsche next time?
2007-01-18 15:45:23 · answer #5 · answered by Calico_Jack 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's an interesting problem. On one hand guys think of sex only, now the facts of life are that women dress to entice men, Now I know that dressing like that does not give him permission to act like a jerk, but with the male being the natural aggressor and his seeing all the sexy ads on TV and the way some women live up to that standard, everything seems to go haywire.
I suggest you tell him streight out that after you accomplish your goals you will consider giving it to him and he needs to be patient:)
2007-01-18 15:48:01 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive got guy friends playing for both sides of that team: meaning, those who have been seriously hurt by stupid biatches end up becoming emotionally unattached for a while &totally just f.u.c.k around. The other half looks for intellegents,loyalty,respect &connection. So not all men play on the same team.
2007-01-18 15:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by Phoenix21 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope not me. Don't think that all men are like that, cos some might be joking with u, some cld be serious and only wanna get laid but am sure there are some who really wanna know who u are and get to know u, care, love, etc...maybe u just met some bad apples...so don't give up..plenty of good ones out there.
2007-01-18 15:45:21 · answer #8 · answered by DooGie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If this is the reaction that you usually get, try another approach.
I don't know what you're wearing, what you say or how you walk, but if you get treated as a sex object with no brains by all these guys, it's time for a change.
Ask one of your girlfriends if they experience the same treatment.
2007-01-18 15:48:16 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...all men are not only about getting laid. But getting laid is certainly important.
One question, in response to something you said:
If sex is "only a physical activity that doesn't require much thought"...and is no big deal...then why don't you women just screw us whenever we want it?
2007-01-18 15:51:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys care about sex and sports, but thats because so many girls out there are so trifling that there is no other use for them, stop going for guys that are only into sex and actually find a decent good guy, or is it that you like the bad boy image?
2007-01-18 15:55:10 · answer #11 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋