What are some ways to get a date or a boyfriend by May or June?

Question

You know I"m 22 and sick of being a virgin all alone and single. I'm sick of not being asked out.

I'm a sweet person that's very outgoing but wears very modest clothes.. I'm not skany nor smothering either.

A good friend of mine told me that most of the basketball guys are single and the guy that plays golf(who I think is really hot!!) is single.

How do I pursue them or be friends with them without being too "come on-ish" or desperate(or without being desperate at all)?

I don't like wearing miniskirts and alot of girls at the dorm like me and respect me(guessing because I'm not a skank that flirts with taken guys? I dunno). I don't show my cleavage either.

Suggestions?

I am confident and feel good about myself.

Answer 1

First of all, you cannot rush the fact that you would like to get a date by May or June. Good things come to those who wait. You've mentioned a really hot guy that plays golf, so why don't you come up to him and introduce yourself? Guys are really impressed when a girl comes up to him and introduces herself. Get to know him and see what he's all about. Let him call you, not the other way around. Keep yourself occupied with your daily life, that way he will not think that you are desperate. Keep doing the things that you enjoy doing and what you need to be doing. Guys like girls who are NOT desperate and are not chasing after them. Men like strong women and you are that strong woman. If all doesn't go well with the guy on the golf team, continue to mingle and meet new people. I hope this helps you. Good luck.

Answer 2

WELL, if you really want a date or bf, I have a suggestion but it takes ALOT of confidence on your behalf. Ok, well, you could ask him out. Or don't even call it a date. Find something you are both into (like coffee, tea, muffins, McDonalds, etc...) and say yall should get together and go there sometime. You may have to take an inititative here... You would not seem desperate. If anything, you would seem like a friend and who knows where it could go from there.
On a side note: good job on being yourself. Don't ever change that to get a man. Because in the end, if your fake, it just won't work out.

Answer 3

There isn't really anything you can do to gurantee that one of these guys will be your boyfriend. But you can't wait for them to come to you either. Try to find some common interests that you all have and strike up a conversation. For example, since they play sports have a small get together where you are watching/talking about/playing the sport that they like and invite them. Don't be afraid to make the first move, it may pay off in the end. Good luck!

Answer 4

Have you tried to say hi and introduce yourself ? Try surrounding yourself with many boys without flirting any of them. Well if you notice someone and want him so much, ask him for a cup of coffee or tea. A bit conversation, and follow the rhythm.

Just remember, always look him at his eyes, and sometimes look at his lips and look back to his eyes.

You dont have to wear miniskirt to attract a guy. What you need is a smile, and say hi.

Answer 5

First of all, guys like confidence. Someone who is not affraid to come up and talk to them and just be themselves. As a guy, I do agree that revealing clothing and stuff usually does catch our attention, but the first time she opens her mouth is what really counts. Just be witty, fun, and show your personality. On several occassions I've been attracted to a girl's looks, but after talking to them for five minutes, I would never think of dating them. So just be confident, show your personality, and have a genuine interest in both yourself and the guy you are interested in. Anyway...that's just the way I see it. Hope this helps.

Answer 6

well, to me it seems that sweet or nice people just dont have advantages in relationships anymore....and always go with a golfer ;) they are the nicest people you will ever meet, because being raised with golf teaches you etiquet, and just leaves you with great manners, lol, cuz im a golfer, so i would know...just be yourself, dont change for anyone, bcuz you sound like a great women, just hang in there and dont lose hope in love....even if love somtimes can just kill you inside....well, take care, and im telling you, always go for the golfers.....

Answer 7

just don't worry about it. just be yourself and that's the only person who u want to be. time will come so just wait patiently. good luck

Answer 8

flirt