i really like this girl from my school and i have known her for a pretty long time we clicked when we first met and everythingwe became really good friends and thats all i wanted to be shes my best friend i can tell her anything and i can hangout with her whenever or where ever i want but i suddenly found an attraction to her and i feel as if she is the one i love her more than earth i dont know what to say to her and if shes says no i dont want anything awkward to become between us
2007-01-18 15:18:43 · 7 answers · asked by confusedguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My boyfriend and I were good friends for a long time before he asked me out too. He loved me the whole time too.
What he did was that he just casually asked if I wanted to hang out with me one Friday night. He was my friend, so I said, "Sure why not?" Little did I know that I realized my feelings for him as well. We've been together for almost a year now. ♥
So just ask to hang out with her. See what happens. That way, if she doesn't like you back, you won't feel embarrassed. Because atleast you didn't make it all fancy and romantic.
Casual is the way to go.
2007-01-18 15:22:28 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. Because you are younger I fully grasp that it may be difficult to lose a buddy. But this isn't the sort of buddy you wish to have. You can check out speaking to her however I'm no longer certain what well as a way to do; this character sounds tremendously self-worried. You obviously will have to NOT deliver them the solutions to examination questions; why get your self in challenge for anyone who does not wish to do their possess paintings? I'd inform the buddy whose birthday is coming as much as have the social gathering wherein ever they might love to; its their social gathering and must be their alternative. Tough good fortune to the men and women who do not wish to take the time to get there. And I'll inform you this; this is not the sort of buddy you can have while you are older and it would possibly not subject to you. This does no longer sound like a real buddy to me.
2016-09-07 21:32:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest. always be honest with a female. she will respect that. I promise you she will respect you for it. If she is your best friend, she will not laugh. whatever you say, say it from the heart. do not rehearse anything..make it a spur of the moment thing..ask her to dinner..make it a nicer place than you would usually go, but not too elaborate. I cannot say it enough..speak from the heart
2007-01-18 15:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by brian. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry about it it wont be awkward unless you make it that way . girls never intiate the wired ness they usually hide there feelings
i wish you luck hope she says yes.
2007-01-18 15:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dont worry I asked my guy friend out and I got rejected but its ok because I'm still his friend wat u do is u e-mail or text message and u say hey i'm going to the mall or wherever and I was wondering if u'd like to hang out a while there...
2007-01-18 15:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by smoresanimaluvr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be better just to 'see if anything happens' you can help it along by being in a romantic setting
2007-01-18 15:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just ask her confidently and respect her decision on what ever she says. good luck
2007-01-18 15:26:28 · answer #7 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋