ok there is this woman that is well engaged. I went to school with her in fact i graduated with her however she keeps jumping in and out of this reationship that she's in with this guy she take's off the ring and everything. When thing's clum down the ring goes back on
but the problem gets bigger i happen to like this woman myself i really didn't get to know her until just recently "now don't jump off the wagon and think the worst because that did not happen" but i can tell alot about her she seems likeable and i can get along fine
with her. But in this case what i said in the beginning should i just forget about her and move on
2007-01-18 14:18:55 · 15 answers · asked by the man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she could always be a friend but in a relationship you should wait because with all the trouble she must like that guy and if you were with her that would be hard for her to chose and you dont want her to chose someone over you if she would that is...She might stay even if the other guy becomes a gent all the way but why risk it if u can get along with her and she's worth try waiting it out.....OR frame the other guy put like gay porn in his car and dildos and stuff and uh yeah good luck
2007-01-18 14:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly? YES! Forget about her and move on! Look at her. She is engaged, but she can't make up her mind. She's hurting her fiance because of her indecisivness, and if you got involved with her she would probably take you for a ride too! Find someone who knows what she wants and doesn't waste people's emotions and time! If that isn't enough, look at what you wrote: "she seems likeable and i can get along fine with her". Find someone who IS likeable and that you get along GREAT with. From what you wront, YOU don't even think she is so great. Dump her from your mind and find a functional woman!
2007-01-18 22:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by Jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is always bad to break up a relationship. One the other hand, it doesn't really sound like she is in a healthy relationship at all! You might be doing her a huge favor, and in turn making your self happy too. Be her friend show her that there are guys out there that will treat her better! Let her know that she can do better (just don't be pushy because you'll sound like a parent.) Number 1 thing is just to be there for her and be her superman when things get tough! She'll come around eventually and if she doesn't- then you can do better! Good luck!!
2007-01-18 22:26:55 · answer #3 · answered by Adriane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Move on. She is confused and even if you two were to end up together she would probably do to you what she is doing to this poor guy right now. You don't need trouble like that. Best run while you have the chance.
2007-01-18 22:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by Johnny R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely move on.She does'nt know what she want's.And if she is engaged and she keep's taking off the ring what makes you think that it would be any different if you were the one with her.If you get involved with her you will only be setting yourself up for hurt and rejection.You will meet the right person and she is not the one for you.Good luck.
2007-01-18 22:29:23 · answer #5 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her be-focus on yourself and enjoy life.
People are attracted to other people that have thier stuff together and are focused.
Let her come to you.
Pursuing a fickle woman is an excersise in futility.
Besides-it could be your ring she is putting on and taking off.
2007-01-18 22:25:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you like her enough you should tell her, and maybe she likes you too just doesn't wanna mess with her hubby about it cause some guys wanna kill ( literaly... ) the wife and the person the wife likes better because of jealousy... sadly enough i've felt like doing so before but it's never a good idea... ever..
2007-01-18 22:28:31 · answer #7 · answered by Blake K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is engaged with this man you should back off because there is nothing worse then a guy who wont live an engaged women alone! its sick man!!!!!
2007-01-18 22:28:25 · answer #8 · answered by Spongy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you are risking getting let down hard by a woman who flip frops dramatically...I would find a new crush bro...
2007-01-18 22:23:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to think far far away... if she beautiful then other lady also more beautiful then her... do u know that is world is full of lady .. u are the man .... go out and find a lady that deserve your love
2007-01-18 22:47:51 · answer #10 · answered by WorkingAroundWithLove 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋