well i wanna know if my boyfriend feels good when we do it.. N how does it feel better for him? how does he enjoy it more.. u know all that stuff.. but i'm embarrased because i dont want him to think i'm perverted... can u help me!! N tell me how i can ask him about all that stuff without sounding perverted or weird??
by da way i'm talking bout *** if u didnt get it.. thank u soo muchhh!
2007-01-18 14:14:35 · 18 answers · asked by rosita 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just talk to him about this.
There is nothing strange about it.
Good Luck
2007-01-18 14:17:43 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel embarrassed about talking to him about things like that,and I don't think he will think you are perverted;he is a guy. I think it is good talking about things like that with each other,and I also think that it makes some relationships healthier. My man I talk about that stuff,and are sex life is awesome. He tells me when he doesn't like things and when it feels good and vise versa. I really think you should just come out one day ask him if he wants to try anything new or if he likes the it is now,and that should strike up a conversation about the subject. If that doesn't help then pick away you think you feel more comfortable about striking up the issue. I hope it all works out for ya,and good luck.
2007-01-18 22:24:26 · answer #2 · answered by Baby Doll 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of making it a big issue, just do it in a playful sexy kind of way. When things are getting heated up, just say "do you like that?", "do you like the way that feels?" or very innocently ask "What would you like me to do?" Use the time after for pillow talk. Never ask if he's done anything in particular before, or what he 'used to like'. Never compare yourself to anyone else. Don't ever do anything you don't want to do, just because he likes it. He obviously likes you, and what you do, or he wouldn't be doing it. If you say it right, it won't sound perverted. How else do you get to know each other. He will appreciate that you want to make your intimacy better for both of you.
2007-01-18 22:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by vampress 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should ask him during some cuddling time. Guys generally like it when they know their girl wants to know how to better please him in bed. It also gives him an opportunity to ask you what you like as well. Communication in a relationship is good for it no matter what it is about. And don't worry, he shouldn't think you are perverted or weird.
2007-01-18 22:23:51 · answer #4 · answered by kalea_kane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just be up front about it and just ask him. i dont think he will find you perverted or anything like that. its funny also that some guys are afraid to ask because us girls might think hes a pervert. but dont worry these questions are for his own benifit so you can know his likes and dislikes im sure he wont have a problem answering them
2007-01-18 22:18:56 · answer #5 · answered by dahyahnah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be a pervert. Talking to him is the best way to get the most out of your sex life.
Ask him what turns him on in a subtle way and then tell him what you like.
2007-01-18 22:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you guys are sleeping together, so he won't think you are perverted if you want to talk about how to make it better. It is weird how two people can get naked, do all sorts of intimate things together, but they get all worried about talking about it.
2007-01-18 22:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him. Guys will tell you right away as long as it doesn't seem like a trick question. Just don't feel bad if he wants you to switch it up a little bit, and feel free to give him instructions too, since it's really a two way thing.
2007-01-18 22:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by Jack S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't need to hear what he has to stay, it'll be in his actions. If he rolls over and turn on the TV, then maybe you are just a release for him. He keeps or wants to keep on going even when he can't, then you know he's enjoying it.
2007-01-18 22:20:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are sexually intimate with him then you should be able to talk to him about anything. What, your sleeping with him but your afraid he will think your perverted if you talk to him about it? That doesn't make any sense. Just talk to him.
2007-01-18 22:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I would suggest that you can start by praising him that he is doing a good job and you are enjoying it then pop the question whether he enjoys it as well...
Try it out.
2007-01-18 22:22:07 · answer #11 · answered by jollywell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋