really liked this girl at the begining of my school year, so later i asked her out. and she said she likes me as a friend. But i love her so much and i cant get her out of my head, and i miss her when she is right next to me , knowing that we will never be together just makes everyday a lot worse than befor but i cant move on sense i asked her out , she told me to wait for her , and that she "KINDA" likes me but i think she is jsut telling me what i want to hear so she doesn't hurt my feeling, but i dont know what to do, i want to move on because i dont really want to stay like this but i just cant , also she likes one of my "riends" that is a total jerk to me but she doesn't know that, and no one likes her , all my friends say i should move on like it is something that would come cassual, she knows i "love" her but she doesn't know how i really feel about her, she has already turned me down once, everyone makes fun of me cuz shes not the most popular girl in school and idk wat to do?
2007-01-18 13:55:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u cant get over her cause u like her and u see her as a good person but if she wants to be only friends dont push more cause u will push her away and maybe even the friendship and she is also saying nicely without hurting your feelings she feels only friendship and nothing more will happen and come out of it so u need and should move on and move forward on to someone else that feels same way u feel about them and hell with also all who make fun of her and all they got self esteem issues and obviously dont feel good and dont like them selves and maybe jealiousy plus jealious cause this girl is a nicer and likes her self more than they do good luck to u and let her and ur friend hook up if that what she wants and i would just stay out of it with that girl cause its gonna come between u and ur friend also but dont sound like u should be friends with this friend when u calling his names and all dont sound like ur a true friend to him either. letting a girl come between u both and calling him names sounds like ur not any better person than your friend. sorry to be honest and blunt but its true
2007-01-26 13:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you've got a lot here. Have you told her what you just asked people? That you can't move on? That you think about her all the time? I had this problem, and I still do. I really like this guy and I think Ive fallen in love with him. I have no idea if he likes me or not. But I can NEVER stop thinking about him. He is never out of my head. I think about him every night and every day. He doesnt know that but I want him to. Be yourself and good luck to you!!
2007-01-26 06:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shelby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i am sorry about your delima and i think you should accept her as a friend and let her go out with a jerk b/c then it will show what a nice guy you are and how not nice he is. i went through the same thing in like 3rd grade and now we are really close friends and i am really happy with it, he moved on and is "dating" a really nice girl.
2007-01-26 13:36:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust your friends get over her, move on. She is not interested.There in nothing but pain for you if you dont. Keep busy. Forget her.
2007-01-26 02:17:34 · answer #4 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hav the same problem but with a guy i asked him out he said no b/c he didnt no be that well (doubt that) anyway he always flirts with me its sorta of funny but i doubt he likes me but he mite b/c i asked him out like 6 months ago but still u should like wait a little while and be nice to her and mabey she'll like u someday
2007-01-26 13:46:54 · answer #5 · answered by leelee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends have got it right. Trust their advice - get over her! No, it won't be easy, but yes, it is necessary.
2007-01-18 14:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋