we will be having foreplay etc... but then she will begin something on me... but then she just stops in the middle of it with out finishing.. and as i say... leaves me hanging. i think she stops because we are about to begin sex but no... she just stops... i begin to get her in the mood again and once shes done she will say "im done" and expects me to get off of her and leave her alone...
i need some serious advice on this. though i am not a sex addict or pervert, it does make me mad especcially becuase its the 6th day in the row that ive asked her either to finish it or not do it at all...
can anyone tell me how to a)deal with this. or B) get her to stop
2007-01-18 13:53:42 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to use your head.you need to stop what your trying to get her to do.you want in her pants an she is saying no way.grow up.
2007-01-18 13:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by julie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That doens't seem fair. It seems like it would be like watching the first 80 minutes of a move and not being able to see the end... ha!
Of all the various issues my friends have had in the bedroom, I've never heard of this!!
I wish I could talk to her and ask her why she does it... but anyway...
I would just talk to her calmly and politely. Tell her that it's frustrating for you, possibly even painful. Does she finish? If so, that would be a good point to mention. If not, maybe that's part of the problem.
If it's lasting too long, maybe you could speed up the process... (I can't believe I just said that!!!! ) Just have a calm adult conversation with her, I'm sure you will figure something out...
I really hope it works out for you!! Good Luck!
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to Julie W. - sex is a two way street. Unless he somehow forced her into having sex, he's not being unreasonable. Both parties should enjoy it! And should compromise until they do! You need to grow up and stop being so naive... if he was a women, would you give the same advice?
2007-01-18 14:04:29 · answer #2 · answered by Tiff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her to stop by not letting her start. Find someone else who isn't afraid to go the distance.
2007-01-18 14:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by reallocojava 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be she does not want to get all turned on because she knows you are a 3 minute man and then she stays all frustrated
2007-01-18 14:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to find another GF, this one sounds selfish to me
2007-01-18 14:08:09 · answer #5 · answered by aglm2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for another girl she scared
2007-01-18 13:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by eddie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋