i got invited to a high school party cuz Im friends with a few freshmen that went to my school last year and i have no idea what happened that day heres exactly what i remember i got to the party and saw my friends by a table i went over there to talk i the table was the 1 with all the snack foods and drinks I got some pop me and my friends left the table 4 about 10 minutes to dance when we were dancing i saw a big group of guys there i didnt really think anything of it when we got tired of dancing so we went back and i finished my drink this really cute guy who i didnt even know asked me to dance in the middle of our dance i started to get really dizzy and he could see that he took me up staires into a bedroom and told me to relax in the bed he layed next to me and said u probably just feel dizzy from all the people downstaires he was rubbing me and just laying there facing me thats the last thing I remember can u tell me what i should do did he do anything or am i just over reacting
2007-01-18 13:34:05 · 19 answers · asked by Preppy Prep Girl 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah i think they slipped something into your drink and took advantage of you.
approach the guy and ask him if anything happened. (if you still see him)
and if worse comes to worse and it actually did happen..
tell your parents what you think might have happened.
and next time your at a party, always, ALWAYS get a new drink.
never leave anything unattended.
because seriously. its too much of a coincidence that he knew you were dizzy after you finished your drink that you left alone with a bunch of people you dont know.
but yeah, really.. gooodluck babes! [[:
2007-01-18 13:41:19 · answer #1 · answered by Lor. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely go to the hospital right away to have a rape test done. Whatever you do, do not shower, wash your clothes or anything, just go NOW! Talk to your parents and tell them what happened. You may have been slipped a drug into your drink without even knowing it when you were out dancing. That is probably why the guys were over at the table and probably what they were doing.
I don't think you are overreacting at all, he may have done something but he may not have. To be on the safe side, get a rape test done, they will be able to tell if there was any kind of sexual contact and if there was any semen found, they can tell who's it is by just a simple test that may require him to give some kind of DNA sample. I wish you the best of luck and hope you take some of this advice and do get looked at.
2007-01-18 21:42:14 · answer #2 · answered by kerrberr95 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like someone may have slipped something into your drink. The first thing you need to do is talk to your parents. Even if you didn't have permission to go the party, don't worry about getting into trouble with them. You need to tell them about it and be honest. After that, it would be an excellent idea to go to your doctor for a pelvic exam. Even though it's been a few days, a doctor can still tell if someone had sex with you without your knowledge. This is nothing to be embarassed by. It happens to grown women and it's not your fault! If anything happened, you didn't cause it, ok? Talk to your parents and if not them, a trusted adult. Don't just assume nothing happened. Be safe and get checked out just to be on the safe side. In the future, don't go to high school parties. It might seem cool but, you're way too young to be there. Any high school guy that would want to hook up with a 13 year old is gross and you're better off not hanging out with them. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-18 21:41:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm I think you should tell your parents. It might be to hard to do anything now that you waited this long. You are ONLY 13 no one should be rubbing you. I hate to upset you, but he probably did... I hope you have a good relationship with your parents. If they are mad at you, I think it's worth it rather then living with fear, guilt or whatever it is you may feel. They would only be mad out of love. Madness only happens from fear of what could happen. NEVER go to a party and leave a drink unattended. Even when you are an adult in the adult world.
2007-01-18 21:42:55 · answer #4 · answered by Jessica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie i am so sorry that must be so horable but i think what you need to do is stay away from those high school parties till you get up there same with me im in eight grade but GO TALK TO HIM FAST!! find out what happend if u can tell hes lieing. uh oh i might be over reacting to but this happend to my friend they might of sliped somthing into your drink and well somthing like sex might of happend next!! and hopfully nothing bad happend i would go to the doctor and get a chek up and tell the doctor cashully wat happend tell them it was all a acedent beleive me theyll understand ok!!! best of luck BE MORE CAREFULL cay
and try to answer mine ok thanxs hope u get it all figured out!!
2007-01-18 21:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by Baby * 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really are 13, I think you should tell your mother or someone you feel close to. A teacher or a friend. Be very careful of this guy.
2007-01-18 21:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by nancymomkids 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well tell your mom or dad about that then if u know his name do to the court and tell them what happen or just go to the cops and tell them they will take a report down and they will go and get that guys side of the story with i can all ready tell ya it will be way different then yours but most likely the cops will believe you more then him so just tell your mom and dad and then tell your friends that were there with ya ok
2007-01-18 21:43:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't ur parents ever tell u not to drink ur drink after u've left it ESPECIALLY at a PARTY he gave u a classic date rape drug U need to go to ur parents immediately...u need to go to the hospital as well to make sure ur not pregnant or something
2007-01-18 21:38:00 · answer #8 · answered by soulfullilangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he drugged you...........your 13, he probably raped you, dont let this slide, tell someone immediatly, all i know is that im 13, and the world isnt a safe place anymore, start being more cautious at parties, ive seen alot of this crap at parties, it makes me sick...i even know some friends that have done (or tried) it....
2007-01-18 21:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by 88 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know what he did or if he did anything at all, I wasn't in the room with you. Go to a clinic or a police station and ask to be examined.
2007-01-18 21:39:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋