I mean the husband and wife have the money. They have built a nursery and already have all their blankets and toys ready, with tons of books on pregnancy and common things to expect. They have been to the doctor who has confirmed it is safe for them to have a baby and they have constant checkups.
Honestly, how many pregnancys are completely planned like that?
2007-01-18 12:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Our baby was a planned pregnancy.
We didn't have the nursery set up, and didn't until after he was born, since he was a month early.
We were financially stable before we began trying to conceive (that was my husband's stipulation, not mine).
I went to the doc shortly before we began trying to confirm, and had all the reccomended check-ups and all that.
I'm betting not a lot of babies are as well planned-for as mine, and mine certainly wasn't completely fully planned for.
Check out the "Trying to Conceive" section here on Answers to get an idea of what people are thinking while they're trying.
2007-01-18 12:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by crazyjmommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well this is why I'm currently 14 and pregnant and you might think Wow what a troll my my story here is 100 percent true and no part of it is a lie Before i start i didn't really read the question sooo I had sex because i felt that i was mature enough to handle it. Second i thought that 1 time without a condom wouldn't hurt anybody and that the pull out method will be fully effective. Now i know that you can get pregnant from pre-ejaculation It also has to do with peer pressure they might be saying oh yes have sex, sex is good yada yada yada and when it come to the truth they are all pure and u r the one that got cause 2 loose their virginity. Sometimes teenage girls use it to relive stress or unlike me I promised to my boyfriend that i would have sex with him for his birthday and we did and that's when the big mistake came in that i said he didn't have to use a condom just because it was his birthday. I know know that if you play adult games you get adult consequences know i have to deal with what god gave it and stick to the plan. Now why do they do it? Because it is life and teens don't really use their brains. Why didn't i use birth control Because it was the matter i couldn't just walk up 2 my mom and say give birth control, i could have but didn't have the guts
2016-05-24 05:17:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends .My first was a surprise but I planned the other 2 . Now if your asking if I actually planned this with my husband (meaning sitting down and talking about it )then no they were not planned at all by him and he would say they were unplanned but little does he know I planned them lol . If I asked him or I guess told him honey lets plan to have another baby it would have never happened. I took matters into my own hands and used him as my victim.
2007-01-18 12:47:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My husband has to be on tee with everything we do..so yes we damn near had a perfect planned pregnancy up until now..He couldn't plan that I would be going on ten months pregnant ...and that has just ruined his whole on schedule, down to the last detail planning Ha!
2007-01-18 12:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by shonnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have three - none of mine were planned... but we're married and we make ends meet for the most part. My kids are loved and happy!
If I was in the finacial position for another one, I guess I would plan for another, but because I'm not, well, I'm on the pill! LOL!!!
2007-01-18 13:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by LittleFreedom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both of mine were, both of my brother's were, most of my friends were, my sister's were.
Most of the people I know planned their pregnancies...and I have friends that planned some and had some that were suprises.
Regardless of planned or not ALL of them had regular check-ups. Depends on where you are in life.
2007-01-18 12:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by jm1970 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had four children.
Only two of them were planned - the ones in the middle. Number one and number four were just happy surprises!
2007-01-18 12:57:23 · answer #7 · answered by LapisLazuli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My three children were not planned at all. I dont know anyone that really plans for kids.
2007-01-18 12:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by smwolf_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mine wasn't! I really don't know anyone who has, even my friends that have been married for a while.
All that pre-planning sounds sort of neurotic.
2007-01-18 12:49:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had three; one was planned! Never had all the money etc., etc., but it all worked out.
2007-01-18 12:46:09 · answer #10 · answered by Pamela B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋