i got my boyfriend about 2 months and at skool he doesnt even pay attention 2 me like when we r alone but if we are with someone than he will act totally different people say he nervous but i dont know what to do cuz i think he is embaressed to be with my me but the only thing is...is that he asked me out and now i have no clue what to do so what should i do?
2007-01-18 12:42:16 · 18 answers · asked by Courtney 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your in school. you have your whole life to deal with men. Take a after school activity and spend less time thinking about you and him.
If he wants you he'll come around.
2007-01-18 12:46:42 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he might be shy since he won't do anything when you and him are alone but when your around people he's different. Talk to him about it and find out. If that's all it is then you can get him to open up and not be so shy. If that's not the case then he doesn't want to be with you anymore but talk to him and find out you need to know what is going on.
2007-01-18 20:46:42 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only 2 months. In the long run, thats not a huge amount of time. Just give it time. Be patient and understanding. How many girlfriends has he had? How many boyfriends have you had?
Try 2 make him more comfortable. If he messes up when around other people, it's easier to laugh it off. When it's just you & him, and he messes up...he can't really laugh it off due to the amount of pressure.
Maybe he really does luv u, and is just afraid of screwing it up?
Give it time!
Best Wishes!! :-)
2007-01-18 20:48:07 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Charming's Princess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know he really loves you, or it seems. But since he is embaressed to be with you, then you have to do something. I know you really like him, but the truth is, if he is embaressed to be seen with you, he doesn´t really love you. You have to break up with him, and I know it hurts to do it, because you really love him. But it is the right thing to do. Imagine when you are married, he will try to act that you are not his wife. So its the right thing to do. Hope this helps.
2007-01-18 20:49:16 · answer #4 · answered by pink lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats just a guy thing lol. Because something similar to that has happened to me, this guy told me he liked me, and he just acted different at school. Ask him if hes just getting nervous or something.
2007-01-18 20:47:17 · answer #5 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is to talk whatevers bothering you to him. Open up to him dont be afraid to say whats on your mind
2007-01-18 20:48:37 · answer #6 · answered by lissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is shy or nervous, and maybe he is embarassed to be with you. I think you should play the same role as him and see how he likes it. He might change his ways after that.
2007-01-18 20:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by babyfacedassasin1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Typically when guys act one way when you are alone and another when around others..they aren't that into you.
2007-01-18 20:48:21 · answer #8 · answered by Stefeddie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and if that doesn't get fast results, dump him. there are other males out there that don't need to be a bad complication in your life.
2007-01-18 20:45:55 · answer #9 · answered by bortiepie 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds shy. Try talking to him when you are alone and tell him how you feel.
2007-01-18 20:45:32 · answer #10 · answered by chemky1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋