I know it can be dangerous. We'r not dating right now, but we flirt a lot. My job is really important to me, so I really tried hard to retain myself not to flirt with him. not too close with him, not be alone with him....
but it's painful, I want to be with him, talk to him, know him more... maybe I can get over him if I find a boyfriend?
ps. he has a girlfriend who has just moved into his place, what he means by flirting with me?
2007-01-18 12:39:07 · 36 answers · asked by janet 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No juz ignore him unless he is serious abt u~!
2007-01-18 12:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Vani R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oooooh my. Bad, bad, BAD idea. Besides, why would you EVER want to hook up with someone who is already involved? He obviously has very little regard for his girlfriend (or the feelings of others in general) if he's continuing to flirt with you after his girlfriend just moved in. My best guess? Either he's: A) a complete ****** and not worth a blink from your direction, or B) flirting with you to blow off steam because he thinks you are "safe" (because you know about the gf). Often, flirting in an of itself is just a way of having fun-- he may not actually want it to go anywhere. Either way, I'd walk away and not look back.
2007-01-18 12:46:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lucid Dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, very bad idea. Dont mix business with pleasure because if it doesnt work out, you will have to look at him everyday. Also after you split, your so called friends hunt you down and tell you his every move. It sucks. I know, I am living it at the moment. Tell him to transfer to another facility and then date him. lol jk Just avoid it at all costs girl. It honestly isnt worth it. And btw,,,,if he has a live in girlfriend then he is a cheat anyway. Doesnt matter if the two of you havent been physical yet. He is flirting and thats cheating. He doesnt seem like much of a catch if hes leading you on and living with another gal. Think hard on this one girl....he not much of a keeper. Good luck.
2007-01-18 12:46:19 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Teller 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys like to flirt and so do girls... Sometimes it get the job done easier... and people like to be flirt to, because it feels good... it help release the stress at work.
If he already have a girlfriend and just move in (which means is serious) Then don't take his FLIRTING too serious or you will get hurt.
2007-01-18 12:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jo Jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a gf, then he may be a player or just a big flirt, if you develop a relationship with him, when he is single and it goes bad then you will no longer enjoy your job, cause he will be there. so i would really think about, and maybe try to find someone else, maybe someone who doesn't already have a gf and that doesn't work with you.
2007-01-18 12:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by pippy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just watch the rumors and gossip flow. If you're job is really important, why even flirt with him in the first place? He's practically cheating on her by flirting and hanging out with you. Don't screw up your chance. Good luck!
2007-01-18 12:43:00 · answer #6 · answered by T-money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget him, dont act interested or flirt back. You are in a work environment act like it. Do you want to get fired? Besides he has a live in girlfriend. Find a nice single guy who you don't work with. Good luck!
2007-01-18 12:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by chemky1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a bad idea if he has a GIRLFRIEND!!
If he was single, that is a different story. By the way, he is flirting with you because he is a man and probably senses he can get pootie on the side with you.
2007-01-18 12:44:33 · answer #8 · answered by sleepyhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah pretty bad idea,especially since he has a girlfriend. Kind of makes him sound tacky and like since his girlfriend isn't around he will flirt with you. He probably see it as shameless,and if I were you I wouldn't feed into it,since it could create more then was intentionally there.
2007-01-18 12:45:41 · answer #9 · answered by Ellie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is just playing games if he already has a girlfriend. Don't be a sucker. Find someone who is not already taken. Flirtations are fun, but flirtations in the work place can be difficult if they sour. Better to leave it alone.
2007-01-18 12:42:50 · answer #10 · answered by Poohcat1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's always going to be attractions between co-workers.let me see..i bet when you get up in the morning ,he's the first thing you think of and while driving to work,same thing and once you get to work,,same thing and i bet you try to see him on all the breaks and lunches....sounds familiar? if you 2 are friends besides co-workers,,talk it over ,discuss dating and possibly hurting the friendship and then once you start dating ,,discuss how you'll act towards each other while at work and then ,,discuss whether it will be kept between you 2 or other co-workers will be told. then you also have to think about how you'll feel once you started to date,,when he talks to other female co-workers,,will you be able to handle that knowing you 2 are an item but jealousy pops up........do i sound like i know what's going on......yup.
2007-01-18 12:51:41 · answer #11 · answered by ggmsixer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋