What should I do?

Question

Well, I have a big question: Should I live my bf?

I love him, it's gonna be real hard forgetting me. But he always acuses me of doing mistakes - and almost always he is overreacting the situations, we always argue, he's always sourrounded by other chicks and does mention that proudly to me...It makes me so upsat..
Sometimes I have the feeling that instead of loving me, he's against me.
He speaks so easily about breaking up with me and he says also that he's gonna be with another girl right after our break-up..He was so bd with me..
After a really small period of time of loving me, he hasn't showed me these feelings. And he wnated to beat me once or twice and I forgave him because I loved /love (I don't know what to say) every time.
But I don't know how I'm gonna manage my life without him, either.
So.... what do you think I should do? Thanks, everybody who had read this blue story.

Answer 1

My first question to you first is why are you still with him if he tried to beat you?
- The answer.... I know feelings of love are really hard to end. You love him even though he seem not to care about you.. That is your choice.
- You should tell your bf that you love him seriously if you are serious about love. You should tell him if he doesnt care about you, you will move on with your life, because love is two souls that support each other and care about each other even its sacrificing there hobies or things they like to do =).
- Overall it comes back to your choice to either leave or stay with him. no one can make others to chose, I gave my opinion but its up to you to chose.

Answer 2

I read your blue story because I thought it was important. I would love to help you as a big sister.
You are completely correct about deciding to leave him and I know how hard this is for you because you are the one who still loves him in the correct way. But I would not let you sacrifice so much for this guy. He is a jerk who deserves to be spanked by all of us here. So, the first thing you have to do is to give yourself a lot of time to forget him. The only things you should remember about him is that he wants to hit you and show off with other girls unnecessarily. He is bullying you. He is a liar. He won't be able to keep those girls he is talking about, that is exactly why he is saying those things to you, to scare you off and keep controlling you. Do not stay with this guy. In the future these kind of guys become murderers of their wives or leaves them without any reason.
Please remember that if he has given you hints of hitting you in a personal level, he WILL do it one day right in fornt of your friends or family. So, leave him before he can insult you.
Good luck sister.

Answer 3

When I first began reading this, I was thinking that you should confront him about his cold actions, that maybe he was unaware and it was just bad communication.
Clearly, he is aware and is simply being mean to you. You don't deserve that! Let him go be with some whore right after you. I am so sure that you could do better. There is going to be someone out there that will treat you nicely, with consideration.
It is hard to leave a situation like this, but you just need to not be afraid of what the future holds, without him.
I really think that it is time for you to move on and fill your life with great things.
Good luck! :]

Answer 4

Hun, I hate to say it but you really do need to leave him. I was in the same shoes that you are in now. My ex gave it all to me. The verbal abuse, emotional and it was down the road to physical. I loved him and thought he was the one at the time. It was a "bad" kind of love. I thought I needed him in my life. After we broke up I was devasted. I knew in my mind that it was for the best but my heart couldnt catch up. Sounds like that is with you too. You heart will catch up to your head. Trust me. There is a better man out there for you that will treat you the wasy you DESRVE to be treated. It has been a couple of years since we been apart and and now I am with my new boyfriend and never felt like this before. He treats me wonderfully. Puts me first with lots of things and I do the same for him. We are open and honest with each other. He knows about my past with my ex. This is it for me. I never felt this way before. It will happen for you too. Promise. You dont need to be with someone who abuses you. No matter what.
Good luck hun.

Answer 5

he sounds stupid and u sound very nice i don't think that he deserves u at all! just brake up with him be for u get your heart broke by him if he is that stupid to say that then just walk up to him and brake up with him

Answer 6

Dump the looser, they're only as strong as you let them be