a few days ago my ex called, and i dont know whether my feelings are coming back or not, do i ignore his calls or do i call back? cause when i talk to any other guy then my recent boyfriend, he gets really jealous and really angry...what should i do?
2007-01-18 12:32:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If it's not a good relationship for you, move on. Find something that's really worth your time, not something that just "fills" it. Don't be afraid to find something better!
2007-01-18 12:36:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds as if you are not really ready for a new relationship. Anytime you start to second guess your feelings about past or present 'boyfriend' situation, it means that you did not allow yourself enough "you" time in order to evaluate and 're-evaluate' your feelings, and the relationship. Most of the time we often rush into another relationship (rebound) so that we can feel good about ourselves and have 'someone' else in the pictures (revenge) right away. It's okay to be alone. Really. You can take more time to find out just what you want in a relationship and what went wrong in the past one. It's not fair to the 'new' man if you drag your suitcase full of woes and ills into the new relationship. Of course, he will not be comfortable with you talking to your ex. The chances are that the two of you might just reminice too much and 'get back together'. That's why when you take time to really give the relationship some clarity, you will know that it is really over and phone call or not - you will be comfortable in knowing what to say and you won't have to second guess yourself if you want to "answer the phone or call him back". I wish you the best. Take time for yourself. Relationships are a dime a dozen. Know what it is you want for yourself. And it will come to you.
2007-01-20 10:17:36 · answer #2 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should not be with either of them. I'm adamant that ex's are just that: ex's. There are reasons you broke, and you will most likely break up again. And if you don't know whether or not you're happy with the new guy... just enjoy being you for a while until you find someone you are VERY happy with, without a doubt.
2007-01-18 20:39:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not call him back. Rather, I'd just take some time to think about what your priorities in life are right now (not in a negative way) but figure out if you really want a boyfriend. You having mixed feelings right now is only going to make matters worse. Don't break up with your boyfriend right now just continue to date him but at the same time, think to yourself 'OK is this what I want? Is this how I want to be?' etc. At least having this guy in your life helps you compare, contrast the priorities within your relationship. Good luck!
2007-01-18 20:41:08 · answer #4 · answered by T-money 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At least give this new/b/f a talking to tell him that what he is doing isn't on, if he continues then dump him. Why did you break up with the last one? don,t go back to him for the wrong reasons.If need be , go without a b/f for a while, no harm done get over all the old b/f before venturing out to get a new one,
2007-01-18 20:41:46 · answer #5 · answered by nessie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are even asking that question shows that you still have feelings for your ex. Also, if your new guy is that jealous so soon in the relationship, then it's probably best to let him go now.
2007-01-18 20:37:28 · answer #6 · answered by stephaniecbillon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex just wants some ex-booty
Your BF is right to get mad, i dont want my gf's ex calling her!
If he was just a friend, its ok to talk, but not the ex.
If you are not certain about the new guy, cut him off before it gets too deep
2007-01-18 20:37:38 · answer #7 · answered by AA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What was the reason why you broke up? You broke up for some reason. Does he know you are in a relationship? Ignore him. If you question your current relationship maybe you should consider being single for a while.
2007-01-18 20:40:35 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why did yall break up
2007-01-18 20:36:18 · answer #9 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋