my best friends boyfriend said something really nasty and mean to me. I was crying over it for for like 3 days straight. I know that if i tell her what happened, she would dump him. But i dont want to tell her because he makes her happy, and i don't want them to break up because of me. What should I do???
ps. i am a teenager and i no this may sound like a stupid problem to you, but right now it is a HUGE thing in my life. And i dont know what to do about it
2007-01-18 12:19:50 · 22 answers · asked by kt_876 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It really depends on what he said but my rule, as a guy, is
never let a girl get between me and my best friend.
So that similar rule should probably be able to be applied to your situation.
Don't let him kill your friendship with your best friend.
If he's really that nasty that she'd dump him over what he said then they are not right for each other anyway.
Tell her!
2007-01-18 12:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it really bothers you, you need to tell your friend about it. The decision to dump her bf is completely up to her. Real friends can talk about anything--what if she found out later and then was upset because you didn't tell her? Remember-be who you are and say what you feel, because those that matter don't mind, and those that mind, don't matter.
2007-01-18 12:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by not active 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this person is your friend, your best friend; you would be able to share what problem you have. Tell your friend the truth, and let her decide what to do. Don't ever feel stupid about the way you feel. Talk to your friend
2007-01-18 12:25:16 · answer #3 · answered by opheyward 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound stupid at all, by the way im a teen too, anyway, u should so tell ur friend what he said, it will open her eyes to who he really is and u could save her from doing some stuff she may regret later anyway, so really ur helpin her, more than u would be helpin urself
2007-01-18 12:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should all sit down and talk about the problem and work it out...im, 28 years old and have had a few relationships.... iv ran into that same problem, the best way to settle the differances is if you all get together in person and talk about it...its the best way trust me...good luck to you
2007-01-18 12:36:09 · answer #5 · answered by ndman78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that does not sound stupid at all. maybe you should tell your friend about it because he might do that to her plus that might show the real him . may be your friend doesn't really know him that well even if he does make her happy.
2007-01-18 12:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by N.a.t.a.l.i.e. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK i've been in situations like this before talk to ur friend about wha happen juss be like yo ur boyfriend said this and this and it really got me upset can you talk to him about it or talk to him about it urself but either way u should tell your friend chicks before d*cks
2007-01-18 12:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Samantha G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends before boyfriend. Tell her what happened. What the guy did to you is innapropriate and wrong and you shouldn't let him get away with it.
2007-01-18 12:24:33 · answer #8 · answered by Chip 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you were her would you like to know. Probably YES if it made you cry for 3 days.
2007-01-18 12:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by grtoo9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
part of being a teenager live with it and let him know how you felt don't be weak and offended be strong and tough! more well come in the future start learning how to deal with it.
2007-01-18 12:25:04 · answer #10 · answered by tino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋