My Family's on Drugs... what should i do?

Question

My mom, dad, brother and sister's on drugs, they don't know that I know, so what should I do, they don't really listen to me much... My mom and dad would go out on the weekends at night to a friend's house or the club and i KNOW they're using drugs, my brother and sister does too! My brother's really great, he's very smart and talented, but he's a high school drop out. He smokes weed ALOT!!! When i come in his room, i would always smell it... His friends are here every week, coming to our house, trashing the bathroom, eats all the food, and just do whatever they want! I can't say anything about it because i'm young... I would always try to not let my younger brother and sister not to smell anything. What should I do??? I REALLY need an answer.

But I'm only 13, I'm really shy, and there's no one in my family that could help me. I don't know about my sister, i maybe could talk to her, i think she's trying to quit using drugs now. Thank-You to everyone!

Answer 1

Yes, I agree with the other advisors here, you must do something for your own sanity, I am sure that at your school they will have a person that you can get some help about the situation, this will also probably involve that person having to take some action in this regard as to your welfare, you must be prepared to act upon the advice that you are given for your own benefit. You at least sound as if you have your head on straight, and I know that they are your family and you probably dont want to get them into trouble, but you also have to look out for yourself. Maybe you could go live with a relative, you could make some sort of excuse as to why you wanted to go, so as it doesnt cause any discruption in the household. Please dont get involved in the same things as they are, you appear to be quite sensible in that area. Talk to someone at school and explain how you feel. I dont think it would be any benefit discussing the issue with your parents, because, and I am sad to say, they dont appear to much of parents anyway. If your going to have any sort of life away from drugs you will need to get yourself out of there, you dont need the added stress of coping with that and growing up in this world today. God Bless and Good Luck......

Answer 2

First off, don't do drugs because the people in your family are doing it. Drugs make you go crazy and you really throughout your life when you use them-but I guess you already know that.
Now, you can't tell your family to stop doing drugs because they probably won't listen to you-especially if you're younger than them. So you need to talk to a school counselor or a family member you trust and tell them what's up at your house. I don't think you need to be in that house because you are second hand smoking (when you inhale and exhale the air of weed and stuff) and that kills Americans more than just from smoking regular. So you need to see if you can move to a different family member's house. You need to get your younger siblings out of there too. Your family may get mad at you for it or whatever-but girl, this is for your health and the wonderful life you have ahead of you (same for your younger siblings.) Having drugs in the house is NOT good-even if you are not/never have been on the influence of them. Anyways, no matter what: stay drug free and do your best in school and live life up to it's fullest and keep your head up when times are tough. You're gonna make it through whatever is brought to you-I promise!!

I wish you all the best!!

Answer 3

You arent too young to know that they are on it, speak up to family, and there are crisis hotlines to call. And whats to say that your younger siblins dont know. I know my daughter knew what pot was a very young age because of her dad, and she cant stand the stuff. She can smell it a mile away and she will come home and say someone is smoking that crap again. Speak up and call someone. Try another family member not in the house for help.

Answer 4

i'm sorry so that you could make this selection. This one might want to be puzzling no count number what your age. My suggestion is to inform. each and anytime I had a foul ingredient that i idea i might want to save below quiet and administration even as i became youthful, it ended up no longer staying quiet and below administration. tell your foster mom. you're literally not waiting to do some thing about it, and the added you're round it the added you're in risk. i'm sorry.

Answer 5

See your teachers and tell them. Because I know that they can help you.. How ever you still young, don't be afraid.. just speak up.. and I suggest, you have to know using drugs isn't good so don't ever follow it.. If you have problem about your relationship with your friends or someone else you can tell your teachers too. Make them to be your friend. Or you can tell your bestfriend. However your bestfriend's young too, but the can hear and know your problems and they can give advice..
Just never give up!! The future is in your hand..

Answer 6

it's a hard question to answer i know you deserve a better life and family than those crackheads. try to do well in school and achieve graduation from high school and go to college. use your best talents that can help you to stay focused on the future. i'm sorry that you have a family like that. my neighbors were like that until they were arrested and put in jail for a long time.

Answer 7

See someone like a teacher, guidance counselor, or mailman...someone! If the behavior gets worse, you're going to have to notify someone of authority. I know it's not as easy as it sounds, but you must do something. And by all means, do not get into the same habit as your family. I'm at least glad you're concerned about them.

Answer 8

move out and live with your friends,
please don't think like your parents and siblings and start using drugs. drugs are VERY BAD

Answer 9

If it bothers you that much move out. Tell them why you are moving too!
God bless and good luck to you!

Answer 10

If you love them turn them in