i wanna like run away...?

Question

i have already been pissed off all day, and my mom comes home and starts yelling at me making it worse. i don't even kno wat she was yelling about but she is just making me more mad than i already am. i feel like i wanna run away rite now. and i don't kno why i have been mad all day i just have. and i don't kno wat to do rite now. i feel like breaking something and like ya im just like really pissed off rite now. how can i get my mom to stop yelling at me and how can i like get less mad, cause im really mad rite now.and my mom dosn't kno i have been mad all day, so she probaly dosn't kno yelling at me is making it worse.

Answer 1

You're really having a temper tantrum aren't you? And instead of trying to solve the problem, you want to run away. How immature of you. You might take a little lesson in growing up and tell your mom you're sorry you've acted out but you've had a crummy day and she probably has too. Ask her why she's upset and what you can do to make her feel better. I'll bet there are some chores you could help her with. Maybe she's been stressed out at work trying to earn a living for her family. Maybe she doesn't feel well. No matter what the problem is, yelling and being "pissed off" isn't going to make it go away or get better. I notice you have a hard time putting your real feelings into words and you have a lot of improvement to be made in your spelling. Are you doing your best in school? Could you try harder? Tell your mom you'll do your best to straighten up and act a little more mature. I promise you running away never solved a problem but it sure can make a lot of new ones for you!

Answer 2

All good ideas and suggestions from the answers so far. Just don't run away - please. That is over reacting big time. Definitely not a good idea. Your Mum loves you - guarantee it.

I think that doing something physical can help defuse this sort of overwhelming and generalised anger. I guess your mum knows by now that you get like this and so if you just explain briefly that you are going off for a few minutes to cool down etc I am sure she won't object. Hey, if you were my daughter, I would be ASKING you to go and do something to cool off !

However, just don't put the blame for your feelings on your mother or anyone else. This is your mood , you own it and you must have the nous to do something about it quickly before you damage the most important relationships in your life.

And, look, in spite of popular beliefs, mums are not psychic or mindreaders (thank goodness, eh ?) so tell her - briefly and neutrally - that you are sorry, but you're in a foul mood and you need to go work on it. Then try any/most/all of the practical suggestions the others have put forward.

Answer 3

Alright here is the remedy... You need to just relax lay down take some deep breaths tell your mom that you have had a horrible day and her yelling is not really making you feel good right now...She will probley have some type of parental come back and say "mom I am sure u were my age and you had some bad days, just let me relax and we can talk later, thank you" and than go into your room put your fav mellow music on maybe write in your journal why you had such a bad day. Try to think of how your life is probley a lot better than other people, your not homeless and you still have a mom from what I read. fall asleep wake up and start your day brand new with a happier feeling in your head. Hope it helps.

Answer 4

Break a few pencils, light some firecrackers, paint a mad picture, type a story on the computer. These are ALL the things I did when I was mad. Calmed me down. But DONT do anything crazy that will break your family's heart. You might feel alone and forgotten, but maybe your mom feels the same way and has had an even worse day. So think about it long and hard before you run away and put your family in panic.

Answer 5

It's really hard to tell mom yelling is making it worse without making it sound like a threat or back-talk.

You wish you could say I have had a really bad day lighten up. I think parents do not respect stress limits on young people.

You never want to run away, trust me-- only bad things will happen to you out there and you break something at home. You do not want to bring fear into the space between you and your mom.

Answer 6

I dont know how cool your mum normally is but if you can talk to her, try and keep calm and let her know, or do you have a brother or sister who can try and help out? Tell her that her yelling makes you feel crap and you don't even know what you've done. Maybe she's got some issues at the mo and is just taking it out on you, if so, wait till she's dealt with it and tell her how it made you feel. If you have done something to make her mad, try keeping your head down till it all blows over! Good luck, and try and get involved in something else to take your mind off it.

Answer 7

if it make you fell better i usualy am realy nervous when i come back home. so it is very normal to be mad and it is even more normal your mum to yell at you. thats just what mums do. there are two options you can choose
first: tell her that she bugs you and go away from home, start working, make money for living, find a place you can go, buy a flat,...and live happily ever after
second: turn the shut down botton in your brain say auf course mum you are right kiss her and go to your room listen to some nice music or sleep, light candles, have a bath for a long time, think about the reasons of your getting mad routine and when you will find them try to figure out a way to deal with them if you cant ask your mum!!! good luck!!

Answer 8

Girl, don't run away! My mom has been doing this to me everyday for 12 years. She yells at me for no reason. She swears alot too. Try talking to your dad or someone that you trust. Don't call child Abuse, people say to do that but it only makes things worse. She's not abusing you anyways. I am just telling you! Does she allways do this? If your mom doesn't then try talking to her about how you feel no mtter how scared you are. If that doesn't work then you'll be living like me forever. Being yelled at all the time for no reason!

Answer 9

your mom probibly had a bad day too, just cool off by doing something else an try too keep your distance from your mom. everybody feels bad one in their life, i mean, how could you know happiness if you diddnt know sadness, everything will turn out fine... belive me. in a couple days at the most things willl get better. go to a friends house thats nearby, dont go to a friends house that your mom dosent like, or just stay in your room, take a nap, think things over... just dont run away thats the worst thing you can do, and if your going to run away- then run away from your troubles and not your house.. dont mess around too... do what your suppose to do and maby your mom will cool off on you... another thing, if your awnsering back to your mom, you should stop, thats just pouring gasoline into the fire

Answer 10

i no exactly how u feel. my mom yells at me all the time for no apparent reason. its so anoying. im sick of it. jsut remember if you run away your friends will be very sad. ALso, if u have itunes then u should make a play list for songs that are songs that cheer you up. theres this one song i like that cheers me up. its called its a great day to be alive, by Traviss Tritt. It always makes me feel better. Just put on a smile and dont run away. keep the smile on yea i no it sounds stupid but it works TRUST ME. and leave the smile on for a bit till ur lips hurt or ur face hurts. or just laugh that works ok